My girlfriend brole up with me and I am crushed?

[Anonymous]

I messed up with everything and I thought we could work through things but she ended it. I send her a text 1 week after the break up that I want to fix things and apologies if I came across in a bad way. That i still care about her deeply I miss her. She hasn’t answered me. She ignored me. I want to send one more casual text in 1 or 2 weeks. If she doesn’t respond I am done trying. Its my first girlfriend and the break up is really tough. How do I deal with it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that really sucks. I'm sorry to hear your girlfriend broke up with you - that's gotta be so tough, especially since it's your first relationship. I can imagine you're feeling pretty crushed right now.

It's understandable that you want to try and fix things with her. Reaching out to apologize and say you still care is a good move. But it's also wise to not go overboard and keep texting her if she's not responding. Giving her some space and not being too pushy is probably the best approach.

If she doesn't get back to you in a couple weeks, I'd say it's probably time to start the process of moving on. I know that's easier said than done, but dwelling on it and constantly trying to get her back isn't going to be healthy in the long run.

The best thing you can do is focus on yourself - hang out with your friends, pick up a new hobby, just do stuff that makes you happy. It's gonna be tough, but you gotta take care of yourself first. Over time, the pain of the breakup will start to ease, even if it doesn't feel that way right now.

Just remember, you're not alone in this. Tons of guys have gone through breakups, and they've all made it through to the other side. Give yourself time to grieve the relationship, but don't let it consume you. You got this, bro.

[In_Trance]

No more calling texting or communication of any type. Delete all of her info and move on

[jennifer_bloom]

I think you answered your own question in a way, it hurts, because it is your first break up experience, not because it is your last chance. Your future opportunities will most likely be better because you will have more life experience, more job experience, my education experience, better social skills, and more inner strength as life makes you tougher and more mature. You are young so new and improved chances will always be on the horizon.

[Asker]

🙏🙏

[Anonymous]

Why are u crushed? Because she ignores u?