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Pros and cons for each:

Unhappily married pros:
1. You’re not alone
2. You have a better standard of living than you would on your own
3. She doesn’t make you happy, but she’s not a total bitch
4. She takes care of you anyway

Unhappily married cons:
1. You’re unhappy in your marriage
2. You’re taking care of your family more than yourself
3. Your achievements have to be shared with your family rather than just yourself

Happily single pros:
1. You’re happy with your life
2. You are fully independent with complete control
3. Every achievement is yours to own

Happily single cons:
1. You’re alone
2. People assume you’re unhappy because you don’t have a wife
3. Dating struggles

Pros and cons for each:

Unhappily married pros:
1. You’re not alone
2. You have a better standard of living than you would on your own finances
3. He doesn’t make you happy, but he’s not a scumbag

Unhappily married cons:
1. You’re unhappy in your marriage
2. You’re taking care of your family more than yourself
3. Your achievements have to be shared with your family rather than just yourself

Happily single pros:
1. You’re happy with your life
2. You are fully independent with complete control
3. Every achievement is yours to own

Happily single cons:
1. You’re alone
2. People assume you’re unhappy because you don’t have a man
3. Dating struggles

If you're in a relationship or marriage, what would be worse to you:

- Finding out they never moved past the infatuation period. Therefore, no they don't love you, never did. It was just the highs, passion and them seeing you as perfect, loving an idealized version of you... a fantasy but not the real you with flaws.

- Finding out they never developed an infatuation period with you and instead jumped straight to loving your real you, your attributes, what you contribute overall, your similarities and they're always been faithful even with the initial highs and passion.