In general, women divorce men if they start to make more money than them. Does this show that women don't take marriage vows seriously?

[Anonymous]

Part of the marriage proposal includes, for richer or poorer, but its been found that a lot of women don't live up to this part of the vows.

[He speaks about it in this video at the 01:48:59 time stamp]

This divorce attorney, with over 20+ years of experience, mentions that if a woman starts out earning a man, and becomes the breadwinner in a marriage, that divorce quickly follows. There are many ways this can come about. For example: a woman can get a promotion at work and start making more than her husband, her husband could lose his job or her husband could have gotten into a terrible accident at work that puts the family into debt and is now unable to work.

Now, an interesting thing of all of this is when the scenario is reversed, men don't leave their spouses. If a woman gets fired from her job, her husband isn't thinking about divorce papers and for her replacement. And when you compound all this with the divorce rates and women divorcing men at much higher rates than the converse, you got to wonder whether women take marriage seriously at all.

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

At the end of the day, it's about hypergamy, women's lack of commitment, and society's unwillingness to hold women accountable.

Women are hypergamous by nature, so when a wife begins out-earning her husband, she will lose respect and esteem for him, and thus her sense of commitment.

Half of marriages end in divorce today, and women file the vast majority (80%) of them. But it's not always because the wife earns more. There are a lot of reasons why a wife might lose esteem for her husband and the marriage. Studies have shown that women who have had 6 - 10 sexual partners before getting married are more likely to be unhappy and unfulfilled in their marriage. The same is not true for men.

https://soulmatcher.app/blog/does-past-sexual-partners-on-womens-impact-relationship-stability-and-satisfaction-in-new-ones/

I believe female promiscuity is one of the biggest driving factors behind the high divorce rate today as compared to the past, and certainly is responsible for the skyrocketing rate of single mothers and fatherless children. Both the divorce rate and the rate of fatherless children have risen in direct proportion to, and as a result of the rise in female promiscuity.

Society blames men for everything, and fails to hold women accountable for their choices and actions. But if we consider the divorce rates among straight, gay and lesbian marriages around the world, it makes no sense to not blame women for it. The divorce rate is highest, by far, among lesbian couples, and lowest among gay couples. In other words, the more women involved in a marriage, the higher the likelihood it will end in divorce.

The institution of marriage will likely not last another generation or two unless women change. But that's not going to happen because female nature will not change. Western society is in deep, deep trouble.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys who don’t provide as they promised in their vows are asking for the vows to be broken

[jennifer_bloom]

Men do not divorce if a woman loses her job, but 90% divorce their wives when she gets a brain injury. Men still want intelligent and productive women, they just value domestic intelligence and domestic productivity over professional intelligence and financial productivity.

[carollawrance]

totally agree with you

[EmmaMary]

FORUM WARNING

The forum's resident "woman hater/basher" rears it's ugly head once more. smh

[Ariesman81]

You've become increasingly hateful. Everything good?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Sal_Monella]

Women don't take marriage vows seriously, generally. They are always conditional.

[carollawrance]

Not really. It’s more about changing dynamics and respect than money itself. Some relationships just can’t handle that shift.

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