Search Results: expectations

Is this a cruel thing to say to someone looking for a "Pure" woman?

So I know there's a lot of talk about how "Incel" get their panties in a knot about women who fool around these days. Honestly asking myself questions about my response to these guys would be "Look here's the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Everyone keeps telling me I have too much high expectations and needs to stop. Do you think I do?

I’m a kind, nice and sweetheart and when I was a kid I always thought everyone was going to be nice to be even though I know not everyone will respect you or be kind to you. I would ask people how they’re doing and how’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you put a lot of expectation on the first date or do you go in totally expectation free?

Are you the type that has a plan of how you want the date to go or how your date should act and be and answer your questions or are you just super chill, no expectations, just whatever it is, it is, type of person on a date?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should California pay blacks $1.2 million apiece for reparations?

The Democrat Governor of California, Gavin Newsom, appears to have rejected the idea of giving million-dollar pay-outs to black residents of the state as reparations for slavery. The idea was proposed by the state’s...

Daniela1982

Master Age: 38

Girls, Do girls ever regret losing someone in a relationship?

Like you had certain expectations and was sure you could improve after that particular guy and instead of improve you might regress or wish you could go back because there was a certain personality trait or characteristic...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to lower your expectations so much that you no long feel disappointment? Why or why not?

I'm curious because I've come to a point in my life where I've just lowered my expectations of people to almost zero.

TDTH2729

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girls, Best settings for first dates? What are your expectations?

KelsierVinland

Xper 1 Age: 24

Education & Career

Have you ever asked for a higher salary?

I got an interview with a really big corporate job. I’ve had just over 3 years professional experience. Anyways, I said it was hard to give my salary expectations because they hadn’t given a clue on what their budget...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have my expectations set too high?

My friend group is a group of three of us and out of the three of us only one has any experiences with relationships. I’m going to refer to her by her first initial, T. T has been in a pretty serious relationship now for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is a flaw that you have?

flaw not redflag, there's a big difference and i think there should be a holiday to celebrate flaws on humans because if you think of it, flaws is what makes people unique so peoples differences should be celebrated...

MementoMori777

Guru Age: 25

What can I do when the choices are give up on love or lower my standards?

I'm 27 female, I've been abused in nearly every relationship I've ever had. My last one ended in 2019 after I'd been raped by my ex and since then I've been single. I had a situationship or friends with benefits type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get over a crush FOREVER?

How do I get over a crush forever? I've liked her for more than a year now, we aren't close friends but have known each other since childhood. I tried restricting her Instagram, muted her whatsapp updates, done everything...

Jamesier

Xper 4 Age: 23

How can I find a boyfriend without being exploited and taken advantage of?

I used to pride myself in being humble and having realistic standards. I didn't care about the guy's income, his education didn't matter, I didn't care about the guy's job history, height, I was simply happy a guy was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you believe opposites attract?

i always believed so but the more i thought if it i have come to the realization that for me thats an unrealistic expectation and the person i settle with would most likely have to be partially insane to deal with my ass...

MementoMori777

Guru Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

My guy friend says I give off an aura?

Following on from another question I had a guy says I give an aura off hence why he said what he did. About no expectations on night out, yet he flirts and tried on loads in past. Why or what does aura mean? Also why when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why is guy friend acting this way?

Me and a guy I know grown close always had soft spot for each other but got partners. I found out my step dad got terminal cancer, he started chatting to him to get help setting up buisness. Step dad invited him London to...

Anonymous

(36-45)