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This is a long story, you don't have to read it/

So yesterday I went to go see Dune 2 in theatres, I was by myself. As I'm watching the movie a woman behind me starts kicking my chair, I respond by taking out my phone and shining it directly in her face. She keeps kicking my chair throughout the movie and so I turn to face her husband who I confronted.

I asked him if he could stop kicking my chair. His wife raises her hand and says no it was me, so I then politely ask her to stop kicking my chair. I turn around and a few seconds later her husband taps me on the shoulder and asks if I could sit forward so his wife has more space for her feet.

At this point me and him start arguing while the movie is playing and the people around us can hear everything. I escalate things by shouting things like f you, f you and your wife, he leans forward and asks me if I want to fight, voice is very soft when he asks me this so I know he's a b. I turn to his wife and say your husband's a b and then turn around and continue watching the movie without interruption from him.

A young guy around my age in a group next to me then decides to confront me, he says "that's weird" how could you say that to a man etc. etc. Me and the young guy start exchanging insults. I say f you, call him a psyy and a pansi and continue watching the movie.

At the end of the movie as I'm going down the stairs I turn around say f you and ask him if he wants to fight I'll be waiting outside. I wait for his answer, and when he's quite I say "no?" He say's I have no friends with me and that he feels sorry for me because I went to a movie by myself. I say "f you I'm rich, tomorrow you go back to your sty as job and your sty as house, im rich f you". This is a crowded theatre and honestly it's kind of funny how nobody else said anything as we were shouting at each other. He stays quite and I walk away.

I have no respect and It might be a problem.

Maybe I should get a therapist, I'm out of touch

Not too long ago I went on date for the hell of it with a young woman I had very little physical attraction for. But I treated her well, bought her drinks, engaged in a good conversation and even drove her back to her place.

After some discussion she made a very insulting comment about my haircut a few moments after I dropped her off. Taken aback and pissed off I just said “well fuck you & have a good night” and left. I did nothing to provoke her. I didn’t hit on her.

The next day I sent her a DM saying “that haircut comment was mean”. She responded “you know what you are completely right. You did absolutely nothing to deserve it. I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me”. She then proceeded to literally beg to me (not exaggerating) to go on a second date. She kept going off on how cute I was & everything else.

I told her I felt better that she apologized but I declined. I wished her the best.

I later asked myself (and should have asked her) would she have apologized if she did not find me attractive? I highly doubt it. Her apology wasn’t truly genuine because there was still something in it for her.

The world isn’t fair. It’s obviously easier to mistreat people who are of little or no value to you. It’s like seeing a homeless person. There is virtually nothing they can do for you (and they can be annoying or even dangerous). But would you do something nice for them and do it discreetly (not for optics)?

It is just in my experience especially with dating is that women have a harder time respecting men they don’t find value in.

To a limited extent I can understand they don’t want to give the guy the wrong idea. But once a woman determines a man is of little use to her she feels like it’s okay to disrespect him much more then vice versa

I have been in the reverse position a few times. I won’t bend over backwards for those women. But I won’t ghost or disrespect them either. I will politely turn them down.