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He pursued me first, and asked me out soon after. I said yes, and for him to come up with the plan, he said of course he would. A few days later, he texts me asks me if I would be free the upcoming weekend, and if that didn't work to let him know. He planned a proper date, arranging place/time/etc. We had a couple brief text convos the few days after, nothing special until he texts me that he doesn't want to meet anymore (it wasn't last minute, it was about a week before our date was scheduled for). He tells me he just got out of a relationship and isn't ready for another one. He tells me im so beautiful and he loves my personality and we vibed pretty well, he seemed super into our convos. It makes no sense, why would he change his mind out of nowhere and waste my time?

Don't assume this is a racist post please thanks. I am a black woman but due to negative experienced from black American women I have chosen not to be bothered with them. Examples, their lack of wanting to achiever better in life. A lot of them prefer to have baby daddies, multiple kids, not pursue a high education, the way they dress ,

are baby mommas, loud, gossip , mean to people, have no faith (religion base). Even me being fit I was criticized for being too thin and eating healthy. They get really jealous too. I just find their behavior odd. I don't get what their problem is and at this point I don't care to figure it out. Their too loud and don't carry themselves appropriate enough to go to a nice area either.