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He pursued me first, and asked me out soon after. I said yes, and for him to come up with the plan, he said of course he would. A few days later, he texts me asks me if I would be free the upcoming weekend, and if that didn't work to let him know. He planned a proper date, arranging place/time/etc. We had a couple brief text convos the few days after, nothing special until he texts me that he doesn't want to meet anymore (it wasn't last minute, it was about a week before our date was scheduled for). He tells me he just got out of a relationship and isn't ready for another one. He tells me im so beautiful and he loves my personality and we vibed pretty well, he seemed super into our convos. It makes no sense, why would he change his mind out of nowhere and waste my time?

Don't assume this is a racist post please thanks. I am a black woman but due to negative experienced from black American women I have chosen not to be bothered with them. Examples, their lack of wanting to achiever better in life. A lot of them prefer to have baby daddies, multiple kids, not pursue a high education, the way they dress ,

are baby mommas, loud, gossip , mean to people, have no faith (religion base). Even me being fit I was criticized for being too thin and eating healthy. They get really jealous too. I just find their behavior odd. I don't get what their problem is and at this point I don't care to figure it out. Their too loud and don't carry themselves appropriate enough to go to a nice area either.

Hey everyone 👋🤗 I am just looking for thoughts and opinions here if that is okay. Had this guy friend who I worked with, we would always somehow end up alone together but just chat or laugh, he always helped me with everything. On nights out it would always be just us left together, he would always say things that were specific about me like how I would react to things or the way I move. Whenever we were in a group of someone else would be talking he would always look towards me and catch my eye. We used to have our own little jokes and he would sit with his knee touching my knee not moving. He left work and at his leaving lunch I had written he was my og in the card when one of the guys asked him to make a speech he said my og and then gathered himself. People always assumed something was going on with us and I used to be mistaken for being his friend to give you an idea of how close we were. Am I stupid to think there was something there? Well he was messaging to see how I was doing lately and told me he had a girlfriend? Can I ask what you all think, was he just flirting with me for that long as a joke or to keep busy or something? I just want to understand. Have no intention of pursuing, just want to hear your thoughts 💭