Search Results: thinking about a boyfriend

Hangout in the evening with a woman or ask her to hang on a different day in the week?

This woman I’m dating is somewhat of a poor communicator and I’m not sure if it’s because she lost attraction for me or she simply is like this regularly. For the first 3 weeks of seeing each other it was amazing. Sex was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he only want to know me when he's in a relationship with another girl?

I've been friends with this guy since we were in college. We were both in relationships at the time but we kinda had abit of crush on each other but we pretended to ourselves we were just really close friends and we'd say...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s something that makes you feel proud of yourself?

I just read a question that reminded me of this and I kind of felt proud of myself. So, when I met my ex, he was determined to stay a virgin and was planning to go to Tibet to become a Buddhist Monk very soon. He met me...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Me and my ex had to break up because of distance...5 years later, is it really over?

Hi there, My ex and I dated all throughout high school, We were together since we were 15, we were each other's first love, helped each other through everything, and had a really deep relationship; it felt like a soulmate...

anon9191

Xper 3 Age: 28

Why would a man threaten to break up every week and consistently ghost his girl?

My boyfriend of over a year has been doing this pretty much since we first started hanging out. But it’s been getting worse lately and I’m not quite sure why. I initially thought that he was schizophrenic when we first...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Finding a love letter that your partner wrote for someone else. in my head now?

SOS I found a very intense love letter that my boyfriend wrote and I thought it was for me but turns out it was written years ago for some other girl. At first I was crying because I thought it was for me but then cried...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Would it be weird if I messaged a guy this?

So while on vacation, my sister, her boyfriend, my mom, and I met this very nice German man who lives in Japan (that’s where we are on vacation) and was on a trip with his mom. My mom invited them to do sparklers with us...

thatshydork

Xper 7 Age: 23

Do men love selfish and manipulative women?

I have been thinking, I had two female friends. They would often tell me their relationship details 1. First one told me, she would make scenes if her boyfriend didn’t buy her the best things or didn’t give her enough...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Is my situationship going to try to get back with me? Things fizzled after he moved to a new city for a new job. What are the chances we reconcile?

I went on vacation and made a pitstop in the new city he's in before heading home. While on a date with him he said some things that made me feel like he was jealous of me seeing other people. He said "you're going to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She thinks im watching her over my boyfriend. Why is she so paranoid?

My boyfriend baby mother messaged him online saying he needs to get me from watching her over him when im not even watching her. I did however, say when i see her i was going to attack her but that was back in April. Now...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

About to breakup, How can I not hurt him?

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, and Im thinking of breaking up. Im not feeling the connection anymore, and I want him to move on and meet someone who does want him (in that way). I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my boyfriend thinking I’m arguing when I tell him my feelings?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He grew up with emotionally constipated parents and his feelings were shut down and not treated with empathy. He was taught he shouldn’t have big/negative feelings and was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

In love with a lifeguard?

I was swimming during a red flag beach day, and i almost drowned last week. A brave lifeguard saved my life he was so nice to me and kept taking care of me and asking about how I felt until i was no longer in shock. My...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend ex reached out to him romantically, I thinking about breaking up with him. should I worry?

He was with her for three years off and on. She reached out asking how he felt about her. They broke up a year ago He says he doesn’t have feelings. He says he likes me but I don’t trust this. And I’m thinking about...

JanetMaree

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girls, What happens if your boyfriend chooses friends and alcohol over me?

So with this guy had no license when I met him so we spent every second together and when he got them it’s been ditching me hanging out with his brother and friend and not spending time with me anymore making an breaking...

Amber89

Xper 2 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

Is my boyfriend over his ex if he still has her nudes and pictures of them together kissing, selfies, etc saved under his hidden folder on his phone?

So this is not a recent ex but an ex ex. He confessed once that she was the one for him and in a way ‘the one that got away’f, not in those words of course but he said that he loved her a lot. I have a strange gut...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can't trust my boyfriend anymore?

A few weeks ago, my boyfriend told me he was going out with “friends for sushi and ice cream.” he was gone for two hours or so. The next day I went to pay him for something and saw that a girl paid him for sushi the night...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, my boyfriend texted my bff derogatory messages after I stormed out after a fight. When confronted he first lied then said he was just mad?

We rarely Ever argue. It’s literally the last thing i ever expected from him. He raves about me too his family and friends. We are happy. Or so i thought. But im crushed. And im going crazy thinking about it. Is it...

Kellokittie

Xper 2 Age: 41