I went on vacation and made a pitstop in the new city he's in before heading home. While on a date with him he said some things that made me feel like he was jealous of me seeing other people. He said "you're going to make me regret not choosing you" and showed visible distain for me traveling out of the county with a new guy I've been seeing. Weird comments aside we had a great time catching up. Back at the place I was staying at his phone was blowing up and he confesses to having a new girlfriend of 2 months. I tell him he can do whatever he wats because he's not my boyfriend. He asks if I'm going to cry when he leaves and I tell him no. He calls me the day that I leave to head back to my city to talk and there isn't really anything to chat about so I end the call. He texted me that he hopes to see me another time and to travel home safe... Then 2 Purple Hearts... I've been thinking about these 2 Purple Hearts for weeks. I fear I'm going insane. I've been no contact for 3 weeks now and its getting hard. Help.
You’re in a situationship for a guy who is in a relationship. What about this equation sounds healthy to continue?
He probably got the feeling you might be getting attached to him. And as much as he likes the attention, he’s got a girlfriend who he’s actually with.
Move on. There is no place for you in his life. Don’t read into his text messages. He wants to keep you hanging as a backup option if the first girl doesn’t work out. Sorry to be harsh but that is reality.
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What a disaster!
I hope you don't think there is a future is this. Good friends with benefits situations don't work like this.
So, he has a girlfriend, and you have a boyfriend.. yet you are wanting to reconcile with the guy who never wanted anything beyond sex with you. Pretty delusional.
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