Guy text me that he misses me do I reply?

[Anonymous]

Guy I was seeing for a while and during lockdown he was too flaky or cancelling plans so I cut him off told him I wasn't interest. He came back this summer he apologised for how he acted. we got back together in a weird situationship he was long distance we were going to try make it work. He invited me to visit him there. Everything was fine he blocked me on instagram few weeks later he told me he met another girl when I asked why. I blocked on everything told him ok I'm not interested anymore don't come back again this time good luck whatever happens.

It's 4 months he sent me a message on instagram "Hi how are you? you're probably mad at me but I miss u"

I didn't reply yet should I reply anything or continue ignoring it? I felt that message was a "I'm dropping by to say hi" message. Basically he messed up twice

[SamIam96]

There's a little drama from the past, but not too much. If you think you might have a good time with him, why not reply? If he's still flaky, tell him to leave you alone, you don't have time for immaturity.

[Asker]

We also don't live in the same country he moved away he's on the other side of the world. He left me for another girl only after a few weeks although I think it's he wanted to be single. I'm not sure I want him back either not sure what I'd say.

[SamIam96]

Other side of the world isn't going to work. You must have captured his imagination for him to pursue you. You're right, though. There's no point.

Maybe you should reply with what you told me: "you're on the other side of the world and left me for another girl. good bye."

[Asker]

I have a hard time trusting him and he has a lot of female friends always posting pictures with women

[Asker]

I also didn't feel like he was sorry enough in his message it felt like he was just saying no apology or anything

[Asker]

Also its the way he left all he did was block me on instagram I had to ask him whats up and he said he met another girl thats it tbh didn't say too much else.

[SamIam96]

You seem to be struggling, looking for a reason to reply. Just do it. You have nothing to loose, If he's still a flake, tell him that you made a mistake, good bye.

[Asker]

I decided to block him in the end

[slatyb]

Do you miss him too? Then yes. Not so much? Forget about it.

[Asker]

I don't know but tbh he lives on the other side of the world I can't see how it would work feels like a disaster waiting to him

[Summeroflove]

It’s not good to just ignore people. Unless they’re being annoying. Then you tell them to stop.

[Anonymous]

Be honest with your feelings, just don't be mean.

[Asker]

I'm not sure what I'd say since I don't want him back or is it best to keep ignoring?

[Opinion Owner]

If your not into him, then don't bother asking.

[spartan55]

Depends how good the D was I suppose.

[Asker]

We don't live in the same country anymore anyway

[spartan55]

Have D will travel.