Guys, Texting all the time to nothing?

[Anonymous]

Me and my best friend used to text lots till all hours sometimes. I have known him so long and I also know he's wife. (I am also in a relationship) the texts have become less but they were still happening quite often. Just casual texting. (Not flirting or anything in that Manor) our texting has stopped and I barely see him anymore.
I always seemed to be initiating the messaging but he would reply instantly.
I miss my friend 😢
Did I do something wrong?

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1 y

Does anyone know why he could have gone so distant?

[boggboss]

Ask him

[Asker]

I feel we have become that distant I wouldn't even know what to say now.

[boggboss]

Could be anything from being busy to him thinking he wa talking too much or his wife thinking he was talking too much anything

[Asker]

I don't think she is the type to check who he is talking to or checking he's phone. She could be but what I know of her she doesn't seem like that. Maybe he did think we were messaging too much 🤷🏼‍♀️

[boggboss]

At this point its just a guessing game if your not willing to ask

[Anonymous]

You need to ask him.

[In_Trance]

Ask your husband

[Asker]

Why? Who I speak to and who I'm friends with is entirely down to me right? I won't be controlled in to who I'm friends with. Male or female for that matter.

[In_Trance]

Calm down... who said anything about that?
If it's truly friends, you should tell him out if respect, just as he should for you. Judging by how triggered you are, it's clearly not just friends.

So, do whatever you want

[Asker]

We are just friends trust me. Men and women can actually be friends.

[In_Trance]

I doubt he agrees and would rail you in the blink of an eye

[Asker]

My partner has plenty of female friends.

[In_Trance]

Great.

Ask your husband

[Asker]

Will do.
Oh I see your only young. You will learn about trust and loyalty when you grow up a little.👍🏻

[In_Trance]

As will you when you have the conversation with your husband.

If I knew you had an age bias I wouldn't have answered

[Asker]

There is no age bias, thank you for your views.