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I’ve tried to take lessons from bad past experiences and not do the same to someone else.

For example I had one ex girlfriend ghosted me after dating for 9 months after a minor argument. A few years later I found myself in the reverse position (wanting to break up). Even though I didn’t want to see my soon to be ex face to face (because I knew she would go ballistic) I gave her the respect of doing it anyway.

She went nuclear and it lasted for an agonizing 2 hours. Culminated with her threatening to kill herself (she didn’t do it thank God). But I left knowing I did the right thing. I let her get everything off her chest. Gave her closure. Also her behavior sadly confirmed I made the right choice.

But I find that usually women use bad past experiences with men as an excuse to screw over innocent (ish) men they meet in the future. Like they are “evening the score” by getting back at an ex by screwing over an unrelated man.

Reason I say this my experience grown women in their 30s with emotional baggage actually get worse then older men who have similar bad experiences.

(I was suspended from GAG for three days due to one sh*tstain Karen who lied to me to the sh*tstain "manager" mods, that I'll leave unnamed, cause "that's against the rules" and all. But I wanted to ask this a few days ago.)

I had this idea for an invention on my way to work on Friday. I usually wear clothes like this to work as my job as an ESL teacher. Every day except "Casual Friday."

I don't have to; the only real rule is "no jeans and no cleavage (for women)." But I choose to, cause I want to look professional and take my job a little more seriously, even if a lot of it is having fun and getting Korean kids to enjoy speaking English a lot more.

I used to wear ties to work everyday, cause they look good (despite being uncomfortable) and I liked how I looked with one on. But the problem was, cleaning them. Especially if I was wearing a tie four days out of the week.

So on my way to work on Friday, I had an idea! Shirts with Built-in Neckties on them! The ties would just be part of the shirt and would look just look a real necktie. They could snap or detach from the shirts, if need be. But the whole point is, you wouldn't have to worry about keeping your ties clean as much or worry about putting the ties on! They could also be laundry-safe, as well.

Men, if you had to wear ties often, would you buy this?

Just a FYI I am both unmarried and don’t have kids. I actually want both but I have just never found the right person for that. There was one person I met years ago who could of been that person but it didn’t work out. She happened to meet me at a specific period in my life which was the wrong time.

Anyway get how becoming a parent can radically change your life. I have nieces and nephews and I observed how my brother went from a carefree assholish “bro dude” to a hard working responsible adult very quickly. He tells me that although he sometimes misses his bachelorhood that overall being a dad and getting married really is the best for him. Also he wasn’t serious about his career/education but he actually completed college a few years after his daughter was born. Him and his wife actually make a decent income with their combined salary.

My sister has become a mother too. She works in education and surrounded by lots of leftist unmarried women. Yes her and her husband are overall very happy they have become parents.

Anyway I don’t want to pot calling the kettle black given my bachelorhood/fatherhood student. However I could settle down with the right person. But if I don’t find her I’m also at peace with that possibility.

But seriously does being unmarried and lifelong childless seriously appeal to many people? Maybe it does in your 20s. But a part of me regrets not settling down with someone earlier.