Is this man at work into me or just being nice? He’s older and has a girlfriend?

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He has a girlfriend and he’s a lot older than me he’s 49 and I’m 30. I’ve never dealt with someone being so flirty within a work environment. I don’t want to make him sound unprofessional or creepy because he’s not. He doesn’t weird me out or anything and if he was single then I’d be all over him ha…

So I like this man a lot, we get along extremely well and have a lot of banter. But for the last year he has done the things below and I don’t know if it means anything?

He has a girlfriend and I’m single…

He stares at me a lot.

He always makes me laugh and is always super nice to me.

He put his arm round my waist once.

He holds doors open / gets me a chair in meetings.

He leans very close to me when we talk.

He touches my hand if I pass him something.

He likes my photos on Instagram, some of myself and just random things I post.

He dms me sometimes.

He told me I was super chill and said he liked me.

He’s told me I’m really talented I do a lot of photography/art stuff outside of work.

He told me he liked my boobs in a selfie I took.

He told me one day at work that he thinks I dress very sexy.

He texts me about tv shows or stuff to watch that he’ll know I’ll like.

He put me forward for a promotion at work and I had to interview with our manager and I got it. He told me I had the job before I even went for the interview.

When it was my birthday at work people brought in cake and he took photos of me getting the cake and presents but never sent them to me or showed me them.

During covid he said he ‘wished I didn’t have to wear a mask because I’m too good looking’

Is this man at work into me or just being nice? He’s older and has a girlfriend?
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