Do men like playing hard to get emotionally while they can be total opposite in bed? I'm getting mixed signals regarding his intentions as physically he seems super involved and connected mentally. But when we are not together he seems to want space tho he doesn't say it. M confused.
If this relationship essentially started in the bedroom, then the most likely reason is that he just sees you as casual sex and doesn't want you to get emotional attached. As a woman, your job is to straighten out the emotional situation BEFORE you engage sexually - if you don't, then falling into this situation is going to be common.
Men lead relationships sexually, so if women do the same, there is no one looking out for her best interests, because most women need the emotional connection, and in both directions. What most women don't seem to realize is that, unlike women, men don't develop emotional connections over time, even with sex. He either has those feelings for you - at least the seed of those feelings - or he never will. If you choose to invest in a guy who doesn't have those feelings for you from the start, then don't be surprised that you will end up getting used most of the time.
You cannot love someone enough, or be attracted to them enough, to make up for them not having those feelings for you in return.
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This is what happens when you get sexual before establishing an actual relationship. There is no solid foundation. So everything that happens during the sex is temporary. It's all a mirage.
Contrary to popular myths, men don't actually bond through sex. Women do, but men do not. Men bond intellectually. If you want to keep him, you have to convince his mind to fall in love with you. Not just his dick.
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Nah. There's no "playing hard to get" with men. Just repressed emotional baggage and a refusal to get close to people.
As a guy I donβt even understand what you mean in terms of categorical classification, processes, and/or even the question itself 🤷🏻ββοΈ. Update?
Outside of the bedroom it seems men have a hard time being emotional in general. Either they go too far and trauma dump or don't show any emotion whatsoever.
His hornyness emotionally involved on bed not he...
Outside bedroom after sex you doesn't exist.Uh... no... that's a myth
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