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The Halo Effect is the subconscious belief that attractive people, tall people, athletically fit people, and wealthy-looking people, have better personalities, and are more altruistic and nicer, kinder people, thus are more likeable. As in, outer beauty equals a good person.

While The Horn Effect is the opposite; the subconscious belief that unattractive people, short men, overweight/obese people, and poor-looking people, have worse personalities, and are more evil, untrustworthy, or criminal-like people, thus are more unlikeable. As in, outer ugliness equals a bad person.

Do you think there is any truth to the Halo and Horn Effect?

I don’t go out often much nowadays. But I figured I try for the hell of it. A buddy and me hit up a local bar that had a dance floor. Two older women (guessing 10 years older) wanted us to dance with them. Neither was exactly a Jennifer Anniston looking but just for fun I took up their offer.

I did dance with them for two songs. But I made an excuse to get water later and didn’t come back. Neither one of them were attractive but it was obvious they both liked me.

My buddy isn’t picky. He will bang older women, overweight women, very weird women, etc. He has a funny extroverted personality who enjoys a good time which is completely cool. I also don’t mind have friendly chats with women I don’t find attractive. But if they are obviously interested I don’t care to get their hopes up nor just take it because it’s an easy lay. I have to be at least semi interested.

I ended up playing an arcade machine for a while. My buddy came around to check in. Told him my apologies for not wingmanning but he didn’t mind. I later said goodbye and the two older women tried to convince me to stay. But the they got the hint.

Anyway I wondered if I should have stuck around just to chit chat and socialize. Get used to socializing again. But I didn’t want to the uncomfortable moment of telling them no if they wanted to take me home or ask for my number.

I'm kind of bored. Here's a dating poll. Vote based on your gender and/or se xuality. Yes; none of them are "perfect." That's not the point. Just pick the best one for you out of these options. Who's Best Girl/Guy?

FOR STRAIGHT GIRLS AND GAY DUDES:

Option A - A 5'5"/165 cm very short, 21 year old, decent-looking, fit guy, who is Asian or Indian, is poor, only earning $15K a year working in fast food or as a barista, who has a nice and romantic personality.

Option B - A 5'10"/178 cm short, 27 year old, overweight guy with a beer belly/dad bod, who is black or Middle-eastern, earning $40K a year as a security guard, who is very funny, charming, respectful, interesting, and astute in personality.

Option C - A 6'3"/190 cm tall, 33 year old, handsome, athletic guy with a six pack, who is white or Hispanic, earning $160K a year as a lawyer, who's also divorced and has a small pe nis, and has a big ego & short temper in personality.

FOR STRAIGHT GUYS AND QUEER FEMALES:

Option D - A 4'10"/147 cm very short, 22 year old, fair-looking, fit & in-shape girl, who is Indian or Middle-eastern, grew up spoiled by her rich parents and doesn't work for a living, is highly attracted to you romantically and physically, who is known to be easily jealous & clingy in personality.

Option E - A 5'5"/165 cm short, 26 year old, chubby and busty girl, who is white or Asian, and works as an office secretary at a small business earning $32K a year, and is rather lazy outside of work, who is very loving & motherly to everyone in personality.

Option F - A 6'0"/183 cm tall, 30 year old, beautiful, toned and slim girl, with a 34DD cup bust, who is black or Hispanic, earning $60K a year as an amateur Instagram model, who has a past as a former escort/pros titute and OF worker, who is very down-to-earth & modest in personality.