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I met a Korean guy (25 m) online, he is a soldier. by the way I'm 22f. We've been talking since the end of January. We also called each other and talked on the phone. He asked me for a body pic once before, but I refused. I said I might consider it once we had a closer relationship. He and I talked on the phone today and I asked him if we could maybe FaceTime afterward. He told me we could do it. He said he had training to go to and then we could do it. He also asked me why I wanted to FaceTime. I told him that we had been texting and talking on the phone and that I wanted to see him while we talked. He then brought the subject to sexuality. He asked if we could talk about it. So I said we could talk as long as we didn't go too far cause i barely know him. He asked me if I had had sex before, if I had a boyfriend, when was the last time, and if I ma**ted. He was very surprised when I told him I was a vi***n. He asked how often I do it. And talk abouit it kind of a few minutes. And then I asked him when was the last time he had a girlfriend. He said he last had a girlfriend 2 years ago. He asked if we could talk about it again later. I said I would think about it. I felt a little uncomfortable with the direction of the conversation. I wanted to move forward with him like a boyfriend. I can say that I'm a little disappointed. Do you think I can have him as a boyfriend? How should I proceed? I live in Istanbul and he is near Seoul. How should I proceed with this?

I have a guy friend that lives in my neighborhood. We met through tinder but nothing sexual ever happened between us since I never saw him that way even though he is super hot and adorable. We text everyday and talk about the most intimate things including relationships and sex and he oftentimes declared his feelings for me even when he was dating other women. Would you shy away from approaching a girl that has such a guy friend because it is a red flag? If yes, what exactly are you afraid of if nothing has ever happened between them for years?