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Search Results: was he just using me
If you had to say "I love you" without using those words, how would you do it?
Everyone knows what unconditional love is, but when someone asks us to tell them what it is, that puts conditions on it and makes it a little more difficult to explain... So we say something like how a parent loves their...
aaron13547
Explorer Age: 31 Why would a partner delete opposite-sex contacts from your phone?
I used to know this guy who always contacted me to hang out and go out with his friend’s circle and join his French expats community here, one day he just randomly disappeared which was odd… Because he was always so...
Is there any truly original superpower concept left to create?
This is a tough one. Between Marvel, DC, Dark Horse, and all the fantasy works out there, I think they've just about tried everything imaginable. My half-angel super-hero, Malia Hano, can share her powers with other...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 I chose a course for my friend and now I feel used… am I overreacting?
I was going to choose an elective course where I already had access to the exam questions, but Ayşe insisted that we shouldn’t take it because the schedule didn’t fit hers (she works as a nurse). She kept telling me to...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Why did this guy from my university club go from staring and joking with me to suddenly ignoring me?
He used to stare a lot at me either from a distance or sometimes I caught him staring at me during our club events together. He used to make jokes with me, say my name a lot too, & used to be around me a lot too. He goes...
Anonymous
(30-35) How wide should a protection zone be? to secure the Strait of Hormuz from Iran's illegal threat?
How many miles thick, for the long protection layer, around the strait should be managed by an international union of: Oman Qatar Saudi and emirates, on the iran side, to prevent iran using its coast and boats to...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Why did my aggressive boyfriend break up and blame me for talking to his mom?
I dated my boyfriend for about a year, but I was always trying to break up with him because he was always aggressive with me and never changed. In the beginning, he used to apologize for his mistakes, but after a while he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this normal behavior for knowing each other for 3 months?
Is he using me for sex or is he just physically into me? Not going to lie we had sex one time and I didn't even get to finish. After that I guess he enjoyed it. We text everyday but he is always inconsistent this is since...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men hide their pain?
I'm sure there are a lot of answers to this. While I never hide my pain fromy wife, in the past, prior to meeting her I did hide it from everyone. The reason I don't hide it from her is she saw me at my lowest. In...
worldscolide
Master Age: 43 Talking to a guy for 2 months… but he has a girlfriend (long-distance). Am I wasting my time?
I need outside perspectives because I feel like I’m starting to lose clarity. I’ve been talking to a guy consistently for about 2 months. We text almost daily — not just small talk, but real conversations, flirting, and...
confusedgirl1025
Xper 1 Age: 30 Please explain why it's okay for the US to have nuclear weapons but not for Iran to have them?
Please don't tell me that somehow it's because Iran is less trustworthy. The U. S. has an abundance of nuclear weapons and delivery systems and is the only country that has ever used them, which it did in 1945 against two...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it really safe to leave my German shepherd mix outside all day or overnight?
I have a German shepherd mix, he weighs about 40 pounds and has pretty short fur. He’s about 3 years old. I’ve been told that it’s okay to leave him outside for long periods of time because dogs are meant to be outside....
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do women see me as creepy or threatening when I approach them?
Theyre always hostile rude and try to use pepper spray on me anytime i approach a woman. How does anyone find love when you're treated like this?
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal to still feel hurt by childhood trauma despite a happy marriage?
Even though I'm happily married and we have our son, once in a while I feel hurt over past childhood traumas. It still happened and I think no amount of money nor trips will erase that. I got emotionally bullied and...
Anonymous
(36-45) How often do you use cruise control of your car?
And do you have a normal one or adaptive cruise control?
Sammy098
Xper 6 Age: 28 Have you ever kept someone blocked but still used their content?
Like for example someone make you a new pfp out of niceness and the person who you made it for said theyve told you they don’t use Facebook ( in the past ) and then you see they’ve changed their pfp to the one you just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you find digital hygrometers to be woefully inaccurate in comparison to the analog variety?
I've purchased many hygrometers over the years. The digital varieties have always been horribly inaccurate, usually being 10% lower than the actual %RH, for some reason, and all but the most outrageously expensive,...
nolabels
Guru Age: 67 Do you use or like my method to filter gold diggers? How do you avoid her?
When i ask a girl out, if she said yes i say: "Considering we will each pay for ourselves, where should we meet?" Half say "ugh" showed they wanted a free meal. Half ask "like dutch'? So i say 'the first date we each buy...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Did using a cheating partner for experience actually help my dating life?
I asked a bit more than a year ago if I should do this, and I chose to do it. Now it’s finished. The short version is that I’m a late bloomer who lost it at 29, and shortly after I learned the woman I was with was...
Anonymous
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