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Do guys “shit test” women?

Women are notorious for sending mixed messages and “shit testing” men. They say something is okay when it really isn’t. They want to see if the guy is self controlled and wise enough to pass the test. However there are a...

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Women are notorious for sending mixed messages and “shit testing” men. They say something is okay when it really isn’t. They want to see if the guy is self controlled and wise enough

However there are a few scenarios men are guilty of this as well. I can think of only two scenarios where men unfairly “shit test” women.

Shit Test #1: He pressures her to have sex early. She gives it up and he then later loses respect for her.

A lot of men judge women for being promiscuous/easy. If she initiating random sex with lots of guys that’s one thing. But if a guy pressures her to do it and she gives in (and enjoys it) then he really has no right to judge her. It was all his idea.

Yet there are some men who do this and frankly it’s a double standard bs. I actually stayed in long term relationships with all three of my past gfs despite having sex with all on them within 3 dates. One ex girlfriend said she would of done it on our first date (we did on the second) if I initiated. But I am actually glad I didn’t.

Shit Test #2: Telling her you don’t mind if she hangs out and talks (a lot) with other guys including exes. However when she does the man gets angry/jealous.

Jealousy is a tricky bastard. On one end a very controlling man is extremely insecure. He gets pissed off if another guy looks to long at his girlfriend or tries to chat with her (often the other guy doesn’t know she’s taken). It can actually be a compliment when other guys check out your girlfriend/wife JUST as long they are respectful about it. But when they cross a line it deserves an ass kicking.

On the flip side some guys seemingly don’t mind at all of their girlfriend/wife hang out with other guys and even do more with them. It’s like they are somehow demonstrating they aren’t controlled by jealousy.

But the truth is some guys “say” it’s alright when deep down they are not at all okay with it. It’s there way of “testing” their girlfriend/wife to make sure they really love them.

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Dating

Everyone wants a honest, sincere and genuine person so what does that mean when it comes to texting habits?

Simple statistical fact is most people read a text within 3 minutes of receiving it. Receiving it means, within 3 minutes of them seeing and then reading a message. The important thing is that some people are genuinely...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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I think my boyfriend doesn’t find me attractive even though he says so?

I remember in the initial stages of dating I showed him a picture of me in France but it was a group picture and he goes like you look strict (nicer way to say I have a bitch face haha), anyways and then he looks at one...

Tanyashann

Xper 2 Age: 25

My friend said guys might have a fetish for my Asian ethnicity?

Is she trying to put me down on purpose? I’m mixed race, and my best friend constantly brings it up. She constantly references my "Asian features" in conversation because I'm half Asian and half white. She said “aren’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know I just need to let this man go but he feels like we can fix it but I know with my trust issues that I told him about , how could it?

So I think my boyfriend purposely does things. So today he tells me he is getting a massage for this girl Alicia that he has known for a year and he just met the boyfriend for the first time in a year. So he tells me...

millyneenee

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Is it true women’s re really insecure?

About their looks or whatever. I tend to hear this. Obviously it depends on the person

Anonymous

(25-29)

About their looks or whatever. I tend to hear this. Obviously it depends on the person

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Can someone who actually has severe control and trust issues change?

My relationship with my long distance ex was rocky. In the beginning, I did a lot of things for him to feel at peace within the relationship. I stopped posting pictures on social media, erased my past pictures, cut off...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel insecure about how I look like and can't feel enough ?

I really feel very insecure about how I look like, I'm coming from half white half arab dad and white mom. But I look like pretty much arab. I could easily count as Spanish Italian or north African and North Indian. Here...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m insecure about my nose, but is it really that big of a deal or am I just paying too much attention to it?

I always wanted a usual small, short upturned nose but unfortunately it’s a rather large nose instead, I look okay from the front of my face, it might be long and with a slight bump but at least it’s a narrow nose overall...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend liked a selfie of a girl he once had sex with. What does this mean?

So last year only after a couple of weeks me and my boyfriend making it official he liked a selfie of a girl he once had sex with. He only liked one picture and then at some point he chose to unfollow her on everything. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Going to a club for the first time as an insecure girl?

I'm 20 and I've never been to a club in my life before. Tomorrow there's a heavy metal club opening in my city. All my friends dress in a punk type way and I wear a lot of pink and they told me to wear my pinkest outfit...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why is my mom such a liar and a hypocrite?

So i had a fight with my mom about a doctor's appointment, where she said she was busy but i forgot so asked her again. She got irritated and called me selfish, to which i replied "you're fucking selfish!" and told her to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is this guy always lying to me?

I have a guy friend I’ve known him for a few months now and we used to work together now that we’re good friends he told me he liked me and I told him I did too but he doesn’t wanna have sex til he’s found the right...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do my acne scars look good and bad at the same time?

I'm 16. I have acne, and I'm really, really insecure about it. Currently I'm on treatment and many people are saying that my acne has improved, but i just don't see it. When i look in the mirror, i see a face full of dark...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend doesn’t get hard with me anymore?

Hey everyone, so my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years and when we have sex my boyfriend doesn’t get hard with me anymore. let me first say that we barely have sex much, two, i don’t seduce him, i don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

To all the dudes who consider themselves MGTOW...

Homies, MGTOW is not the way to go. I mean look, I sympathize with y'all. I grew up with two Karens in the household. I've seen the havoc they cause and the big ridiculous deals they make, with a pushover of a...

JSDavis

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