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Okay, so..
This is the context and then situation:
I'm going to school, I currently hang with a bunch of girls in class (hot, smart ones). Outside of class I know most people by name (~80p) and have talked on shallow levels. I am applying myself as a support-role to most and give/reccieve respect from many, I have high social status and reccieve lots of attention from girls and guys. The common way where girls can be picky don't really apply as I am the sought after and they are chasing.

Contrary to popular belief, I am not very experienced with girls at all, though I am well versed in bodylanguage and used to networking friends and analysing social group-dynamics. I am used to navigating crowds and leading with respect, care, well-meaning, long-term intention. When you give respect without judging you also reccive it, which adds up and twists in positive rumors.
I am not a "white knight", but I am also not a bystander, I speak up for my views and call out people without making a scene.

The situation:
So in my friendgroup, well there's no girls that ain't orbiters (friendzoned) right now but I really like this one girl in group, she likes me too, she's really a great balance between ratiinality and intuity, she's really smart and mature, we're both extroverts and naturally flirty so it went on well at first then I found out she has a boyfriend.

I appologized (outed myself as an admirer) and reverted to friendzone because I am trying to be principled (maybe not to a fault). Which she obviously said she appreciated and denied even noticing (obvi) and then we just went on being great, playful friends, knowing we're just being natural. But since then she's been brushing up beside me (forcing skin-contact) at the gym and while studying.

I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month now. We planned a night together, but she told me she was seeing friends beforehand. So I told her I’d meet her there and we’d go from there.

Her side: You arrived with your friend thinking we weren’t going any longer. Her and her friend helped me get into this event and I didn’t even thank them. Apparently I didn’t even say hi to her. I was playing the cool guy card with my friend and was walking around doing my own thing instead of being with her. “When you come with someone you stay with them”. Not long after at the bar upset at me giving her no attention and when I came up to talk to her it was the worst timing possible because she was eating and that’s a sacred time/bad convo time. I left and she claims I was planing to do that the whole night and not stay there. And lastly I didn’t come back to her place to stay over even though yesterday that was the plan! And I didn’t even reach out to her the day after when she thought I would.

My side: Came with my friend cuz it’s a group thing, she said ok over text. She sent us used tickets from her friend so I went in before and came to say hi to everyone while also worried cuz my bud wasn’t. Said thanks to her friend for the ticket and she’s chill. I’m 99% sure I said hi to her within the group at first and if not that’s my bad. Asked her about going the next event solo and she said no and going home early. Gave her the alternative for next weekend, can chill and enjoy the night. She was chatting with friends and I didn’t wanna intrude with my bud so I let her be. Id come up to her in small groups and she’d walk away after. My friend and I started doing our own thing sensing the vibe. She was pissed at the bar talking with her friend, when solo I asked if she wanted to come by my buds birthday briefly and she said no. Not long after I put my hand on her and she removed it in front of someone, then I said my goodbyes. Finally, not going to sleep over when vibes are horrible!