Search Results: am i in a bad relationship

Need a little dating app Benchmark guys?

I was in a long long relationship that ended over a year ago. Never been on dating apps before or bothered with them in anyway. I got tinder two weeks ago bec it seems to be the most popular one. After the initial 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Is it okay for me to message him?

We only dated for a month but he ended the relationship because apparently my texting habits were a problem for him (he said I texted to much when he texted at the same frequency). We got into a huge argument after he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do women just drop a loyal, and good boyfriend or Husband that treats them right?

Most guys I know usually put loyalty and respect first and foremost in the relationship, (unless they find a reason to just not like the relationship anymore) sometimes it just doesn't seem like women seem to care much...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean if someone calls you traditional?

A man I’ve just started seeing called the way I view sex and relationships traditional, what does this mean and is it a good or bad thing?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like at first?

In our group of friends there's a couple whom really didn't like each other at first, but now are extremely happy together. The guy was actually interested in a friend of the woman he's now married to, and dated her for...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

My ex boyfriend pays rent and then says we will split instead of helping me with a property?

I met my ex and lived in a homeless shelter. He took me on dates and then sent me back. Kissed me, and I didn't make any advances first. I wasn't ok with it I asked him rent me a bed. I have a very cheap bed in a shared...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to stay a virgin with a sexually active partner?

I am a virgin but my potential partner is active. I want to stay this way till marriage and I feel its not easy for him cause I've got some kind of rules. I do not know what to do anymore. He voiced out his feelings about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I need some outsiders view. Whats your perspective?

My ex/ baby daddy says things like..." I love you, I miss you, you're beautiful, do you want to be with me?, I don't want any other woman but you, i won't hurt you, it won't be like last time." I want to believe him but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why doesn't he want to support me financially?

I am in a bad financial spot right now and my boyfriend who is well off doesn't want to help me because he thinks it will ruin our relationship. He motivates me to keep pushing which I appreciate. If the roles were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is it possible to get him back?

I’m 21 years old and my ex gotta restraining order on me…the situation is we were first each other, he’s obese white guy and I’m skinny half Asian girl that aways try to look the best so I won’t look ugly anywhere. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I feel hopeless?

I just escaped from a really bad 10 year relationship where I was imprisoned in the home, attacked, dragged, SA, gaslit, manipulated, cheated on and forced to watch etc etc Now I’m free but super lonely and feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to deal with this insecurity?

I've been dating this girl for close to 8 months now. Everything is great, and things only get better as time goes on. My insecurity isn't making me jealous, and it is by no means driving me to control her life or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

What is your opinion of my very controversial views?

More of an open discussion but I've always struggled to find someone to meet my standards. The views I possess are not abnormal, most men just won't say it to keep their reputation. . I need someone who has no more than 2...

Factualobserver

Xper 2 Age: 32

Is he actually in a relationship or just pretending to be hide some kind of other feelings?

Guys lie about all sorts of things and this might be a weird lie but is it possible? I had a crush on a coworker (bad I know) but my friend messaged him saying that "I don't want to over step any boundaries and I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend embarrassed of me?

My boyfriend and I been together for 13 years. A really long time together and I think I know him well and so does he. Like normal couple we had are ups and downs but manage to keep a good relationship but there’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Leaving my current boyfriend: what to do in this situation (read description I need advice please)?

So I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for just over a year now, and in that time there’s been a lot that I’m not happy with. I do care about him a lot, and I have love for him. However, we don’t go out and do anything...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should my boyfriend know my ex's name?

I dated my ex from freshman year to senior year of high school. I'm 25 now and just got my first boyfriend since that (toxic) relationship. My new boyfriend keeps asking me my ex's name. I have told him a bit about my ex...

Anonymous

(25-29)