Do you think that the people who actively blame an entire gender for the misdeeds of the people they've dated, are immature?

[Anonymous]

You hear it all the time...all men are bad, all women are bad because someone was hurt in their relationships and have decided to take it out on an entire gender. We know that's not true because for that statement to be true, those men/women include your parents, your kids, your siblings, your friends, and the random people across the world they've never met.

Do you think people who are incapable of realizing not all men or women are the same are just plain immature and incapable of growth and maturity in relationships?

[Yetiman88]

I don't think that they are completely immature and of growth... I think the process of growth is being hurt and working your way out of it.

Unfortunately for me being hurt brought out a lot of anger, pain and trauma from my past. I think I've been through just about any reaction or emotion you could feel or display which has been pretty embarrassing.

However, it made me look a lot of things in life differently and showed me how naive I was when it came to the world of dating and relationships.

For example I did nothing but blame her for not showing me the same respect, faithfulness and commitment during my deployment as I showed her the 3 years prior.

But after further examination I decided it was mostly on me because I didn't know what boundaries were or set them, I looked past all her red flags and gave her chance after chance.

She was sneaky, lied and sad things that told me there were issues. I was looking at what she could become and trying to steer her to the person I knew she could be. I was in love with her potential but failed to listen to what her actions were actually telling me.

I did a lot of blaming and attacking myself, it was absolutely one sided but after realizing that I hurt me the most I looked at a lot of things differently.

[ohsheeT]

You're exactly right those are all drama relationships every single one of them and knows what we all should be trying to stay away from if there's drama in your life stay away get away from it if you can't work together to be happy and become one and what are you doing together and people that blame other people that's just stupid it's the most stupid thing I've ever heard.

When something goes bad in a relationship the only person in the world that you can blame is yourself because you knew what was going on and you are the one that decided to stay there that's the bottom line right there if you're not happy get out of it and find something that you're happy with

[mandyfire98]

They have the cognitive ability of a child.
Thats how a child thinks. Oh a dog growled at me so every dog is mean and bad.

Adults mature mentally (or should) and should have the ability to reason on a basic level. You'd have to have very low intelligence to generalize like a child.

My dad is a man, so therefore my neighbor who's a man is the exact same. - that's ridiculous and childish.

[Chevy1_kb]

Well in my case of relationship with my ex I was blamed for everything I couldn't handle it I mean that's a cunt that just to big headed doesn't want to feel bad so they blame the other person for there own faults

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely! Throwing a blanket accusation over an entire gender because of a few sour apples? That's like saying all movies are bad because you sat through a couple of duds. It screams immaturity and a lack of willingness to see beyond personal bias. Growth and maturity in relationships start with understanding that individual actions don't define an entire group. So, to answer your question, it's a definite yes. Moving past these stereotypes is like unlocking a new level in the game of love. Let's encourage looking at each experience as unique, instead of painting everything with the same brush. Love isn't a one-size-fits-all, and understanding that is where true relationship wisdom begins. 😉

[AviatorTom]

Not immature, they are misinformed and misguided. The concept if ALL is rarely correct.

[ManInChains]

Those who are hurt time and time again in different ways by different women constantly, I believe, are justified in their assumption when it comes to them as an individual. Calling them an incel and no trying to understand his side of things will only prove his point

[MrOracle]

Nothing is going to apply to every single example of any group, and things like being mistreated or having a bad attitude is never going to be close to applying to 100%.

While you can make a generalization if something legitimately applies to a majority of a group, there are always going to be exceptions, even if the majority is huge. But a majority only needs to be 50.1%.

[BadApple69]

I agree to a point. All men are not bad, all women aren’t bad…. BUT…. All men\women share certain characteristics with their gender. This is why there is such a thing as FBI profilers. So where we are not all the same we do have similar characteristics.

[Anonymous]

you can say that about any identity of any demographic

but at the same time there seems to be conformity mindset amongst certain demographics to have the same agreements

for example, Candace Owens being a conservative black woman who doesn't support feminism or BLM, oh the audacity for her not to conform! she must be a sellout!

[Snakeyes7]

Absolutely. Collective blame is extremely short-sighted and doesn't involve a lot of thought.

"Person did bad thing, person is x, therefore all x does bad thing."

You completely skip over the important step in acknowledging that everyone has their own thoughts, feelings, interests, goals and beliefs so collective blame is intellectually dishonest.

[mobiusforniner]

Anyone who blames others when things go awry, are losers. Because they don’t want to look inwards to improve. It’s easier to point fingers and stay the same

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in gender equality and I'm not a feminist. And the number of feminists is very small as you can see in this poll, traditions will win
Election poll ! Who do you think should be president? ? ↗

[ProbablyClueless]

Of course they're immature, but it's also not like you're going to reason with someone like that. The person is being led by their anger and frustration.

[Nikki1989]

They are the poster children for the immature.

[Smashingdoozy]

Yes. But men do suck. Women do too. We all suck 😞

[WhitneySnow]

In general yeah, but some generalities are true. Like guys generally do cheat more, though there are lots of wonderful guys who don’t

[desidoll]

Yes, they made poor choice in their past life and blame other people for the consequences.

[LadyKitty]

Yes I do. The actions of 1 doesn't reflect an entire gender.

[LiamJHayden]

I despise the broad brush stuff I see on this site.

[dragoblack]

Yes. It shows emotional immaturity, a lack of self-reflection, and a lack of taking effort to work on oneself.

[noohair]

Yes, immature. And they blame the gender so they don't have to face missing red flags and having poor judgement.

[NathanDavis]

immature is a nice way to say it...

[jahaims]

It's immature to lack introspection

[the29thhuman]

🔊 Louder for the Bo-Zo’s at the Back

[abc3643]

Yes, of course.