Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship

My husband wants some of my tax rebate, is he using me?

Me and him married almost two years ago primarily because I moved countries and he needed a way to stay living with me. When we lived together he was somewhat financially dependant on me. At first this was by a small...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do when he is not making enough time for me? We’ve been dating for 2 years and for the past 2 months we have only seen each other once?

I haven’t seen my boyfriend for the past 6 weeks, I’m not worried about him cheating or anything, he is a true workaholic and leaves his workshop late at night. When I ask him to meet up after work he says he is tired and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I haven’t seen my boyfriend for the past 6 weeks, I’m not worried about him cheating or anything, he is a true workaholic and leaves his workshop late at night. When I ask him to meet

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How do you deal with seeing someone you still have a little feelings for on a daily basis?

I've recently came to terms that my crush probably has no interest in me/isn't motivated enough to go further (even though he keeps on looking at me) so I'm a bit bummed especially since I see him everyday at my mosque. I...

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Xper 1 Age: 21

Family & Friends

STOP telling people they should stay with their partners for the kids?

It is frustrating when so many people sit there telling people it's better for kids when their parents are married. This shit is very insensitive to those of us who grew up with parents who were toxic for each other and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have You Ever Been In A Relationship Where You Are Used And You Don't Mind?

I met a woman on Tinder and I enjoy her company. She doesn't work and doesn't have a job So, I pick her up at her house and I take her to nice places and restaurants. I pay for everything. We have had 6 dates and we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Age gap relationships pt. 2: Early teen girl has crush on me. What do I make of this?

Preface My dad is part of the management board of a heritage trust that overseas an old school/church listed as a national heritage site where they mostly host camps dor confirmants from local parishes within the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me two weeks ago. Is there someone else?

We were together for 5 years. We bought a house together 12 months ago. Everything was fine. He was still loving towards me in the months prior to this. About a month ago, he tells me he is depressed and I support him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just curious of peoples opinions?

A guy that took a long time to commit (a year), finally committed and then a month in ended things bc it “just wouldn’t work” I was the first girl he took home to his family, he’d previously told me he loved me, and he’d...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to end a year relationship when you know you must?

I have been involved in a year long relationship with a girl that is extremely attractive and I suppose it is fair to say that I fell completely in love with her. it began one way - with much adoration from her, such...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My one night stand was saying this?

So I met a guy on holiday who worked in a bar. We were flirting a few of the nights I went there and so he invited me over to his place where we had sex. We had sex and then I stayed a little longer and we were talking....

Anonymous

(25-29)

myReview

The "Role Reversal" argument doesn't work because it's exactly what men want

The reality of the treatment that women receive, the condescension, the objectification, is that it is men projecting onto women how they want to be treated. This is for a number of reasons that I plan to get into here...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Do your relationships work out better/last longer when the woman initiates?

I’ve noticed that in my life, whenever I’m in a dating situation, things tend to work out better for me when the woman initiates. What I mean by initiate is make the first move, i. e. introducing herself first, texting me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it just as meaningful as saying “I love you”? Should I wait for him?

Seeing a guy since December we have recently decided to take things slow due to his job & him having to travel so much that he hasn’t had much time for me. We’ve had a talk about it & he swears it’s his job & that right...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men regret ending relationships?

I’ve heard some men often need to lose something to understand how great it was in the first place. Is that the same with relationships / situationships? We had an amazing time together (around 6 months) in which...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it time for me and my fiancee of 9 years to end things?

So I'll start by saying that my fiance (32m) and I (30f) have been together since 2014 we have been engaged since 2021 and live in an apartment together. Things are good as far as we laugh a lot we travel and don't have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What can I do to fix it?

So I saw the guy who I’ve been missing for almost a year now for the first time since we stopped talking this weekend. I thought that I had progressed passed my feelings I felt in that relationship but I haven’t. And they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it true that most autistic people are less likely to get married?

I read that 5% or 35% of autistic people get or are married and as an autistic young woman, that’s very disheartening. I would love to find real, healthy and honest love but no guy seems interested. Like when I get to...

AutisticLonelyWoman

Xper 4 Age: 23

Is a relationship worth it?

I’m going over to me guy best friends house today. I have had a crush on him for 3 years. But recently he dated my girl best friend (we’re not getting into that) but they broke up about a week ago. We are high school...

Anonymous

(18-24)