Search Results: just friends or relationship

Did I over react?

So I had this friends with benefits. We were good. No strings attached. I got it. He’s text me every day with stupid memes or to check up on me etc. if he didn’t message me I didn’t reach out to him. We got close, at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What should I do about confusing friends with benefits/situationship?

I (26f) met this guy (35m) through mutual friends. We lived nearby each other, got along great, and went on some dates. He would also come over and just talk to me for hours after we both got off work. At the time, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How do you deal with a gamer boyfriend who’s always “there but not really there”?

My boyfriend is a full-on PC gamer. I knew he was a gamer when we started dating, and I even thought it was cool I play occasionally myself, and I always got along with gamers. But now that we live together, I’m realizing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

He doesn’t want a relationship with me, but is desperate to be friends?

He chased down and asked me out multiple times despite rejecting him twice. I gave him a chance and he told me that we weren’t compatible for a relationship because I’m not confident enough for him. I end things and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Need a relationship advice on what I should do?

So I have been talking to this girl since 2019, we used to talk a lot late nights then in 2023 we got into relationship it was going well, then after a couple of months I started doing pot under my college friends...

Ezio404

Xper 1 Age: 21

Dating

How important are shared political views in a relationship for you personally?

Could you be with someone whose views are the opposite of yours? This guy I was dating and I were actually friends for a long time before we started dating, but we never really talked about politics. One day, I mentioned...

Genie23

Influencer Age: 34

Dating

Should I reach back out to her?

I’d been seeing this woman for a month and I told her that I didn’t want a relationship with her. She ended things citing that we weren’t on the same page. I still want to be friends and get to know her. Should I reach...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How can I get him to pursue me?

I met a guy at a work conference. We hit it off as friends straight away and have been talking for around a month via text. I told him a few weeks later that I fancied him and I had been thinking about him a lot. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Netflix and chill and Drinking or just a chill thing with drinking?

Okay, to the point. I asked this woman that knows I like her, and she knows I want to Fuck her, and be in a relationship with her and all. Right now we a friends but not like a friend zone deal. I asked her let have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How can I get them to leave me alone dating apps or friend apps? Should I say I don’t want to talk to them?

I keep attracting Black men on this app where you can find friends or possibly a relationship—like dating, something fun, or something casual. I wish they would stop texting me, because it’s always the same questions...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Should I ignore our history?

So since the start of this year i am back in touch with a girl. Me and that girl share a lot of history. To this day we know things about eachother that few or none know. We used to be very into eachother, after that on...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Should we be sharing undies in our relationship?

My boy friend and I share underwears We exchange undies, we totally wear which ever we see or deem fit Is it safe though

AfroSavannah

Xper 1 Age: 19

Relationships

How would you react to a confession about a fear?

So, I have a severe needle phobia. On the level that I can start shivering if needles are talked about in my vicinity for too long. In November I will have gone 16 years without needles. (Medical ones, I have no problem...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Is it normal to be jealous of people that has special relationships with their mothers?

So my mother abandoned my father and three brothers when I was about nine. One day she just packed up and left. Dad was arguing with her and she argued back that she didn’t want to be a mom anymore and we were confused...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is it common for guys to still flirt with other women when they’re in a relationship?

I’ve heard that my boyfriend has been flirting around with a co worker who he was previously talking to/getting to know before we made it official. He was honest about his dating life before and after we officially got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

How should I tell the girl I like about my needle phobia?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

What do I do now?

This girl and i have been in a weird connection for almost ten years and i can’t handle it anymore. We both liked eachother as lovers in the beginning, then friends then lovers and it kept going on and off but never at a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How to know if a guy likes me or if I am just wasting my time?

I have a crush on my guy friend. We are religious so we have strict dating standards and expectations (no lusting, spending time alone unless fully dating, influences). We have known each other going on 5 years but never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

So my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year 6 months officially but known each other for 3 because of work, he's met my mom's side of the family and my friends and he's suppose to meet my dad this weekend. Things are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

How to reject a woman you see every week, without ruining friendship?

I am in the middle of figuring out where my situation is going with someone, so I'm not exactly on the market, but also not in a relationship (It's complicated, as life often is). Another woman, whom I encounter and will...

Anonymous

(30-35)