How can I get them to leave me alone dating apps or friend apps? Should I say I don’t want to talk to them?

[Anonymous]

I keep attracting Black men on this app where you can find friends or possibly a relationship—like dating, something fun, or something casual. I wish they would stop texting me, because it’s always the same questions about the color of my nipples or vagina. It’s really annoying and is affecting my psyche. Sometimes, they’ll even call me rude names or try to belittle me about my looks. Or they’ll constantly tell me their better than white men or other men of different races then say it’s just trolling sometimes.

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11 mo

@Dishlady stfu seriously lady. I gave context on what was happening and racist I’m fucking black stfu.

[DishLady]

First of all, it's smart not to post a sort of "thirst trap" by mentioning your fun bits on a question... that would help reduce "your problem".

Next, how racist... I won't get into it. Clean up your language. It's really annoying and affecting others' psyche.

Lastly, if you can't be civil get off the app. There's no one forcing you to stay in a space where you're feeling uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Probably put you’re not interested black guys on your account I don't know tbh

[DannyUk2017]

Get OFF THE DATING APPS, if you don't want to talk to nobody, why Are You There in the first place?

[Asker]

Again I do want to talk but asking about the color of my private areas is inappropriate for black men to ask

[Asker]

Again I’m looking for a boyfriend I’m not a cheap damn whore a black man can just use and dispose

[DannyUk2017]

Well i'm sorry to say but they do that and "asking for these things" because you're "out of reach for them" 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Oh thanks but I hope they learn manners

[DannyUk2017]

Um... yeah.. i will doubt that, they never learn...

[Asker]

They don’t I literally blocked over 10 that

[Asker]

It’s annoying that’s why I ask that question on here and it’s like they are a plaque

[DannyUk2017]

Oh, don't worry, you'll block many more... we all done it...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

It’s weird how some of them expect a women of color to have certain stuff White women have

[DannyUk2017]

Well, there lots that feel like a plague... so we just have to dodge them...

[Asker]

Yeah for real

[DannyUk2017]

Well... It is, What it is...

[Asker]

Technically I think they shouldn’t do especially with the metoo movement and how guys are label as creeps

[DannyUk2017]

🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

It’s just my opinion 😭

[DannyUk2017]

I'm sure many will agree with it

[Asker]

😂 I hope so

[DannyUk2017]

They are don't worry. 😉

[Asker]

Thanks

[DannyUk2017]

Welcome 👍

[Anonymous]

I'll take things that didn't happen fir 800 Alex.😆

[Asker]

Seriously why don’t you go to a nursery home?

[Asker]

Do you wanna see messages?

[Opinion Owner]

Nursery home!😆😆😆
What exactly do they do at a nursery home? Will they nurse me?😆

[Asker]

a private institution providing residential accommodations with healthcare, especially for elderly people.

[Opinion Owner]

That's a nursing home dingleberry. No a nursery home.🤦‍♂️😆

[Asker]

Dipshit that’s the definition of nursery home

[Opinion Owner]

Is English not your first language or are you just f***ing retarded?

[Wise4myage]

Can you block them?

[Asker]

I do I blocked over 10 in total

[Asker]

I’m asking how can I get them to stop texting me?