Should we be sharing undies in our relationship?

[AfroSavannah]

My boy friend and I share underwears
We exchange undies, we totally wear which ever we see or deem fit
Is it safe though

[Screenwriter]

The only time it might be riske' would be if you ended up in the hospital after an accident and the staff might have to cut your panties off him or his underwear off you. They might snicker.

Doesn't matter whose underwear you wear as long as its clean. There's no "unsafe" underwear. It's up to you what you like to have on.

[AfroSavannah]

Thanks
This helps

[Nikki1989]

Sure. Boxers are comfortable.

[AfroSavannah]

Yeah they are
Especially his

[Finchie40]

I can see a girl wearing mine but a guy wearing a girls’ that’s a little creepy , is he gay?

[AfroSavannah]

Wow
The double standards

[Finchie40]

If you want to look at it that way , but from a masculine male perspective, that is Gay

[AfroSavannah]

Boys!

[Finchie40]

Does he wear your thongs as well? How about your make up? Does he take your tampons as well? 😂😂😂😂

[AfroSavannah]

So funny Finchie
So funny

[AfroSavannah]

Actually, he wears the thongs too but not make ups and he has no reason for wearing my tampons
Satisfied?

[Finchie40]

LOL he wears your thongs!!!

[AfroSavannah]

Yes
Yes he does
Any problems?

[Finchie40]

If it doesn’t bother you then that’s up to you. But from how I see it and I know a lot of other guys’ will agree , Her being in a thong for us , is like a reward for us , it’s something we look forward to , so by him wearing it , kind of defeats that purpose , I wouldn’t be that turned on seeing my girl wearing a thong that i was wearing as well. So your boyfriend is more than likely bi sexual if he wearing you underwear or he has a lot of feminine qualities inside of himself , Does he have any brothers’ ? Was his Dad in the picture?

[AfroSavannah]

A few sisters and his mom

[Finchie40]

LOL , that’s why

[AfroSavannah]

Noted

[slatyb]

Of course it's safe. There's nothing more intimate than having sex.

[AfroSavannah]

I agree

[AI Opinion]

So I'm here to make relationship advice fun! Sharing undies might spice things up but it's a little bit of a red flag in the hygiene department. While lovebirds often share almost everything, underwear might wanna stay an exception due to hygiene issues. 🩲 Keeping personal items, well, personal, can help avoid bacteria exchange. Love is amazing, but let's avoid sharing germs. Keep things steamy without sharing those seams! 😉

[WonderingManII]

Probably not any worse than having sex with him.

[AfroSavannah]

Right?

[WonderingManII]

I'm just saying it shouldn't have anymore germs.

[AfroSavannah]

You're correct I guess

[WonderingManII]

Are you wearing them unwashed or after you wash them?

[AfroSavannah]

Should I say
Sadly, both

[WonderingManII]

While the decision of whether or not to share underwear in a relationship is personal, it's important to be aware of the potential health and hygiene considerations

Potential Risks of Sharing Underwear:
Transmission of Infections: Underwear comes into close contact with bodily fluids and skin. Sharing underwear, even if washed, can potentially transmit:
Fungal infections: Like jock itch or yeast infections, which thrive in warm, damp environments.
Parasitic infections: Such as pubic lice ("crabs") or scabies mites, which can survive on fabric for a period.
Certain skin infections: Like molluscum contagiosum.

Reduced Effectiveness of Washing: While washing helps, some bacteria and parasites can be resistant and may survive the process if hot water (at least 130°F or 54°C) is not used, or if the underwear isn't dried on high heat.
Hygiene Habits: Differences in personal hygiene practices between partners can increase the risk of transmission.

[AfroSavannah]

So what do you suggest?

[WonderingManII]

Personally I wouldn't do it. But if I was doing it with my girlfriend, I would at least wash them first.

[AfroSavannah]

I think that'll work
Thanks for your advice though

[Abear_1999]

One of my girlfriends swapped her underwear with mine. It turned out she really liked wearing boxers and boxer briefs. I started wearing panties at that point.

[ilistengood]

Damn lucky lucky guy. Would love meeting a lady who at least accepted some of my kinks.

[convo_king89]

How can he fit into your with out stretching it out

[Jeff51]

I wouldn't it.

[AfroSavannah]

Fair

[Jeff51]

Im married. We don't wear each other's underwear.

[AfroSavannah]

I guess that's y'all's taste

[AfroSavannah]

It spices up our sex life

[Anonymous]

I don't care so much about wearing yours, but licking the front if they're creamy is a treat.