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I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a concert. I went by myself. His friends approached me and we ended up hanging out for the night. He flirted but never made a move. His one friend was drunk and got my number before I left for the night. Next day, his friend asked me out, I politely declined, explaining I had chickened out from asking the guy I was interested in for his number. The friend said the guy heard me telling another guy I had a boyfriend (I don’t, I do this when I’m out alone to easily reject guys). The friend also sent me the guys number and said he thought I should text him. I did. We texted everyday for a week and he called me 3 or 4 times to chat. First time he called he said he was not a good texter and preferred calling (if I was good with that). Throughout the week we got to know each other a bit. He made sure I knew he lives a few hours away (he is moving soon tho), and that he is 9 years older than me. The last call we had was ~ half an hour and went really well. He teased me and called me nicknames, said his friends thought I was really cool, and mentioned different things we could do together. He told me he was going on a trip that weekend and at a music festival the following weekend so he would be super busy. He told me he was just a call away before we hung up.
I texted him the next morning responding to something he sent the night before. I asked a question about something we discussed on the call and he never responded to the text. A week after our last call, I had not heard from him so I texted again. I said I might be able to make time if he wanted call me again sometime that week. I figured I was likely getting ghosted, so I mentioned if he wasn’t feeling it that I understood and it would be no hard feelings. He texted back a couple days later adamantly saying he definitely wanted to keep talking. He never called though, and that was about 5 days ago now. Should I consider myself ghosted? If not, is it likely he’s just not very interested?

So my boyfriend entered to win and he was like well if we win I’m giving your mom money to go on the trip (I planned for us to go to PUERTO RICO for her 50th birthday) and we’ll go off and get married. It was a joke and my mom and I so happen to talk about the mega million and I told her what he said and she got really offended. She’s like oh no one is standing in the way of y’all getting married & your not gonna pay me off.

im like what😒😒no one even took it there it was a joke. So now my mom is angry. I’m like if we didn’t want you apart of it I wouldn’t have even asked you to plan my wedding! She didn’t care about what I was saying or the fact that I was crying cause she ended up telling me to plan my own wedding.

Now once I move out our family home I will no longer speak with her. Now the question is would you be offended by the joke?

p. s. my mom never shows she cares about my feelings but I’ve always been caring of hers and it isn’t fair.