Boyfriend prioritise pub over me?

[Helpagirlout23x]

So there's been a few times I've asked to see him, or we've had plans and instead he just goes to the pub and doesn't mention it until his friend blurts it out or I question him

Not long ago made plans, I asked if I could see him on that day, he said no as he was in a bad mood and instead goes to the pub with his friends.. he didn't tell me until a few days after or I just found out, can't remember how

Then today, I asked to see him yesterday if I could see him today (yesterday I was having a bad day as well) and he said yeah or we can play a game together, then today he says he's really tired so I message saying let's leave it and he was like yes please I'll try and see you tomorrow.. now I find out he's gone to the pub with his friend for a few as his friend was already there then we can play a game later, wish he would have the enthusiasm to see me as he does to go to the pub I've been feeling really shit today and I haven't seen him since the weekend

Am I being dramatic? I feel hurt over this

[davner]

you're not being dramatic. this isn't a good sign in general...

[Helpagirlout23x]

Thanks, what do you mean?

[davner]

ill try to break it down, but remember, you know more about him compared to what i just read, so don't just assume that everything i say sounds just about right.
why doesn't he tell you before hand that he's going to the pub?
why do you always have to get the answer out of his friends mouth?
why did he lie that he's tired so that he can go to the pub? what's so important at the pub?

what would happen if you go with him to the pub next time?
a relationship is a two way thing you know? one persons feelings shouldn't get prioritized over the other.

[JohnK123]

U mean pub g? LMAO

[Helpagirlout23x]

No the actual pub lol