Boyfriend prioritizes his friends over me?

[Anonymous]

We are in an LDR. I feel like whenever he has an option to go out with his friends or stay in and talk to me he always chooses them. We do get just enough time to talk, althoughI would like more, but the other day when he said his friends came round to his place to meet him and go to a new years party and we are in the middle of a Skype , he didn't tell them no, he went anyway. Should I talk to him about this?

[MadeInAmerica]

LDR are very tough especially at your age when there is so much to do with friends as you don't have many responsibilities. Its way more fun to out around town and with friends than just sitting on the computer. Boys can only talk so much that's why going with friends is more appealing. Yes you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. LDR takes tons of commitment and most aren't suited for it.

[Ephemera1]

Well he'd get some major shit from his friends if he told him he'd rather be skyping with his girl than go party with them. You only feel like he's not prioritizing you over them because you're not there with him. If you were, he'd definitely compromise with you or choose you over them.

[BeautifulPromisesx]

Hmm you've chosen abdool and his bananas over me doe 😕

[Ephemera1]

@BeautifulPromisesx So what those bananas are good

[BeautifulPromisesx]

Hmm k

[BeautifulPromisesx]

You're both young I'm assuming lol do you really expect him to stay inside that much? Especially since you said you get enough time to talk... Long distance is hard enough but you gotta realize that he has a life outside of you. As long as he gives you time that's what matters.

[lumberman9]

Yes say something if he's neglecting you like that than he's taking you for granted or he's losing interest

[unknownpoet]

he doesn't like you anymore