My boyfriends prioritizes friends over me. What should I do, I'm looking for outside advice?

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. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We are both in our late 20's. I am a single mom of one, in school full time, and I work. He works at home, and has an extremely leisurely schedule. I don't have a lot of free time due to my schedule. He hangs out with his friends 3-4 times a week. In 2 weeks he'll be going to Vegas with them for about a week, while I take finals.

I'm not needy, and I do like my space but it seems all he wants to do is hang out with them. I had a really long week, and what I wanted most was just to spend some quiet time together. Instead he had us signed up to go play poker with his friends. Is it not rational to want some alone time, or to do things outside of his friends? I like them just fine, but I'd like to start doing some of the things I want to do.

Whats worse is we can probably see one another twice a week, mean while he sees them all the time, (4-5 times a week) and even when I'm free he always wants us to hang with them. I don't want to make it seem like I want him to not hang out with his friends, but I know if I bring up how much time we don't get to spend alone because he's always with his friends, that's exactly how it'll sound. I'm starting to think I shouldn't have gotten serious with him.. I feel petty & childish for giving him the cold shoulder but at the same time, I only give him the cold shoulder because I feel he can be thoughtless at times.

Ladies what would you do, guys, how would you feel if you knew your lady felt this way>
My boyfriends prioritizes friends over me. What should I do, I'm looking for outside advice?
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