I have a huge feeling i’m going to be single my whole life?

[Anonymous]

hi ya’ll, my ex boyfriend and i were together for 10 years. he was all i wanted because i knew the guy he could potentially be. i’ve slowly started to notice that he prioritizes his friends over me. today we were supposed to hangout and it’s been hours since i heard from him so i called him and he’s out with his friends. i asked him why he didn’t tell me anything and he said “i don’t really have to tell you anything” then things started going down hill fast. i asked him why he could go out with his friends but not with me and he said because you’re a bitch and super intolerable. i asked him oh is that the same reason why we don’t have sex often and he said yes because you’re a bitch. he turned off his phone and i messaged him saying that i no longer want to be with him that i am so tired of him prioritizing his friends over me and i’m tired of him knowing he doesn’t want anything to do with me but keeps me along. i’m 32 years old and i’m dealing with this bullshit. all i wanted was love and i couldn’t get it 😔 i don’t want to be alone anymore but i don’t want to deal with his anymore.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

I'm sorry to hear that you had such a difficult experience with your ex-boyfriend. It sounds like you are feeling hurt and frustrated, and that you have made the right decision in ending the relationship. It's important to remember that putting your own needs and happiness first is important, and sometimes that means walking away from toxic situations. You deserve love and mutual respect in a relationship, and it's okay to take some time for yourself to heal and focus on what makes you happy. If you need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to friends or a professional counselor.

[Anonymous]

Don’t date for their potential. That was your first mistake. Don’t date someone for who they “could” be. Date someone for who they are. Otherwise you’ll never be happy with what you’ve got.

[MikeTheBartender]

Hey it happens to all of us, it sounds like this was recent. Trust me you will feel better eventually. But also trust me you will run into the same problems, every relationship will have them, but when it is Extreme it's time to move on. This is just a step in your life, don't let it define Who You Are

[MementoMori777]

you won't be alone forever and you are dealing with a break up, go through the healing process and get over him, you'll know when to jump back into dating, for now get over the douche and focus on orher things

[zeitgeist057]

You're going to be okay. You dated one guy from 22-32, that doesn't mean you're going to "be alone your whole life". You haven't been alone for even a couple years of it, assuming you were raised by a family of humans before you went out on your own and met this guy.

Good on you dumping him, he doesn't sound like he was being nice to you.

If you want love, it's not that hard. You can have it. Just keep putting love out there into the world and it will come back to you. That's "the secret": what we give is what we get. So do what you need to to do to grieve this 10 year relationship, then put your big girl panties on and get back out there in the world and be a queen.

Don't put up with BS just to be with someone, because as you have just learned, it doesn't work out. Be with people who make you happy, and you make them happy. Happiness is attractive and good things will come if you just keep giving the love like I said.

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[Anonymous]

Yeah, I wonder what he'd have to say about this. There's always two sides to every story. After 10 this is either a blip that's being blown out of proportion. Or you are super bad at ignoring red flags.

[TheSpaceGnome]

How on earth did it take 10 years for the breakup to happen?