If it’s every night as you say then, it’s absolutely his fault but if he’s doing it like once a week then it’s not his fault.
I mean the Bros gotta hang out.
What really caught my eye is you both been dating for 13% of the average humans lifetime or 22% of a woman’s life in fertility.
If you ain’t happy, and you’ve tried your best, it’s probably best to move on because you have several biological clocks ticking and you’re wasting time. Even if you don’t care about having kids you have still spent 13% of your life span dating this guy.
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Every single night is excessive. That to me says there's a lot of stress at home and he'd rather avoid and be medicated, probably like he did all his life.
We don't know what is really going on, we'd have to talk to him to know what he is avoiding.. and maybe thats best left to his therapist. People don't change unless they have to. Heck, they don't even admit they have a problem unless they have to... just speaking the truth can be hard. .. and it sure is a lot easy to jam a needle in the arm... or drink some beverages having a good time, than it is to face life, stale emotions and make changes.
There's dudes driving around in 1960s vw wagons doing what they did 60 years ago.
That be really miserable to deal with, don't envy you. You can try to make home as inviting and safe as possible so he can open up.
Because he wants to and knows that he can get away with it.
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"we have been together for 10 years and we always fight about this. and he doesn’t change. he always promises to change but he never does." Why should he? He's doing what he wants, and you whine about it but after ten years you are still there.
Let me tell you the reasons why it's difficult, as your boyfriend was friends with them before you, they laugh and have fun with them more, so he chooses them, your boyfriend, don't let it happen, I think 10 years is not a little time, there's no change in the basis of a person anyway, so look at the way to endure it, break up with him
Addiction is a hard thing to conquer. Especially if you don't know or provide any good / viable solutions that will actually help with conquering that addiction., assuming that person is actually ready to make a change.
Why did you put up with it for 10 years?
People do not change, you will never get what you want from him.I read your question and I already want a beer. And I don't even drink. 😆😆😆
Because his friends and beer actually have personality.
He must be very selfish.
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