My boyfriend constantly chooses his friends over me?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to sound needy or anything but my for the last few weeks my boyfriend has been choosing his friends over me. We have probably hung out a total of 3 hours this whole week and I didn't see him at all the week before. I've confronted him about it and I've even cried to him about it because he makes me feel like sh*t because he doesn't want to see me. He even told me that he doesn't want to sound mean but he would rather hang out with his friends. I've even threatened ending things and he begged for a second chance but hasn't changed yet. This is making me really unhappy so I want to know what you guys thinks this means. Am I being too needy or is he losing interest ?

[Spikes105466]

Hehe, for not sounding needy you sure sound like it :D

Anyway, it seems that he doesn't know what he wants from you. A part of him wants to stay in the relationship and another doesn't. I mean, three hours during two weeks... That's weird, how long have you guys been dating?

If it's been a long time (+6 months), maybe this is just a phase and it will let up soon. If this is pretty short, then I would think you should just break it off because he is not giving you respect, so why should you. Plus, is it worth you crying and being insecure over? I don't think so.

I would end it because someone has to have the pants in the relationship, because he probably doesn't have the balls to end it. If he really wants you back, then he will show it.