If I try to talk about it, he yells at me and argues. Whenever I feel ignored and unheard I feel sad and he yells at me for crying. I feel stuck and not sure what to do anymore. Whenever I try to talk on the Phone be hangs up and me trying to reach him he gets angry and blocks me and ignores me and unblocks me when he feels. I constantly feel alone and helpless when he does that. He then later acts like nothing happened and acts normal again. When I feel upset he gets angry and says Im always angry or upset. He never feels bad for anything he does or even talks about it after.
You should run away from yourself and him too because you're both the problem. It's your fault and it's his too. You two choose to operate like this. You can make of your relationship what you want.
Sit down and write out the type of relationship you two want and then think and act like the people who naturally would create that relationship.If you want to be a doctor you have to go to school and be a great student. If you want to play in the NBA you have to put in the hours and learn the game. No doctor ever thought, "I'm not going to go to school anymore but don't worry I'll still be a doctor." You have to consciously think and act like the people you want to become until it is fixed in the subconscious, then you'll do it unconsciously.
You're a team. It's not just him and it's not just you. Stop fighting each other and start fighting the bad habits you both have.
And if he doesn't buy in to all of this then you need to move on so you both can find someone that is a better fit.
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He’s behaving like a child.
You should break up with that large child and date an actual man with emotional intelligence and maturity instead.
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gaslighting person , who hurts u and get mad when u cry because u are hurt. Run. This kinda people ruin u
It’s time to dump him my friend. He isn’t going to change anytime soon. You can find better.
Yet you still stay with him. Pathetic.
This is ex boyfriend, right?
Leave. NOW! It's only gonna get worse.
dump him
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