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Here’s the gist. I’ve been dating someone for about 2 months, things have been alright but the other night we said I love you to each other, I initiated that but wasn’t expecting a reply of the same.
I have feelings for this person clearly but want to make sure that there’s nothing I should be worried about. So I did some digging (I’ve been hurt too many times in the past to not first dig around and see what’s up.).
First thing I find is their dating profile on the site we met is still active. Ok…not promising…
But then I found a profile of them and another person together like a joint profile explaining they were looking to hook up with a third and to contact them if interested.
The other thing I’ve noticed is, my significant other never asks me about my personal life or family, everything is surface. I’ve also noticed they do what I call parroting our conversations. So if I say something they say almost the identical thing back to me or will just ask me the same question I just asked them while trying to get to know them.
Break up or stay. What should I do?

He is 27 and I’m 30. We work together in a small team and have worked together for just over two years now. I believe we have a flirty relationship. He is nice to everyone and always jokes/has a laugh with everyone, so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me. Examples of his flirting include:

- We have a lot of eye contact. Sometimes I will catch him staring at me or the eye contact will be very prolonged. Haven’t noticed the pupil dilation at all.

- He does silly things just to get my attention. He will grab my hair clip, press something on my keyboard or touch my chair.

- On a night out, someone thought he was my husband for some reason, and he said “I should be so lucky”

- Outside of work he is very “huggy” but won’t touch me at work

- He laughs at silly things I do and calls me “daftie” occasionally

- I was stressing about an upcoming event because I was having my hair and makeup done. He asked me why I was having someone else do it and I said “because I want to look beautiful”, to which he said “why don’t you just do it yourself”

- sometimes I will see him look at my boobs

- he sometimes gets a little jealous I think. When another man gave me a lift into work, he called me a “wimp” and when I asked for help on something, he said “why don’t you get “other guy” to help you”