we've known each other for a month. We were united by a common passion. we met 4 times and talked every day. our contact has decreased for 2 weeks, I keep talking to him but he is no longer interested, he explains it with problems he doesn't want to talk about. He hasn't spoken to me in 3 days. I wrote to him but he responds briefly. what does he really want? was he bored? should I talk to him directly about what he expects? or suggest a meeting where we can talk What should i ask?
3 mo
Guys, why is he behaving like this he doesn't show initiative, he doesn't write and he doesn't want to meet?
What Guys Said
I suggest just prepare to move on. Let's say what he says is actually true. That he has a problem that he doesn't want to talk about. You constantly asking him won't help you. On the flip side if he just lost interest in you. Well you're wasting your time as well. I say just move on. You don't necessarily have to look for others but just leave yourself open to meeting others. Because why wait for him if you're not even sure if he wants you still. Just be open to meeting others and of he comes back then you decide if you still want him