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Me and this guy both like each other a lot, but he’s not willing to take our “relationship” any further than just having a mutual crush as he has stated in the past that he won’t commit to a real relationship with me because of our distance. WE haven’t done anything physical together, He isn’t my Boyfriend, we haven’t said anything about being “exclusive” to each other or “waiting”. so realistically is it wrong of me to sleep around with someone else without him knowing?

Obviously both genders have their own different challenges. What might be an advantage to one gender isn't to the other. But honestly what do you it's worse?

- A man (ages 25+) never getting a girlfriend and remains dateless; a virgin. Maybe he might have wanted a family but he's not having any luck at all. Yet, he won't pay for sex.

- A woman that can't get a keeper on time (she had a couple bfs but neither of them ever propose, all of them are just into shacking up, the romance and sex but not commitment) and either her fertile years are drained if she remains childless or she ends up pregnant with a boyfriend and at a higher risk of being a single mother. Then having a child with a man that wouldn't commit reduces her dating pool of suitable keepers even more.

i had sex about twice within 12 hours about 14/15 days ago. my boyfriend came in me twice. im not sure if i am pregnant or not. i keep having mixed feelings, one second i think i am and the next i think im not. he keeps telling me i won't be pregnant because he smokes too much weed and might be infertile because of that.. im not sure if thats even possible. im not sure what to do. me and him are currently broken up and he keeps threatening to block me over the slightest things and he is very controlling and is always angry for usually no reason. im not sure how long to wait to take a pregnancy test either or which brand to get for the most efficiency. any advice would be appreciated.