What's worse, never getting a girlfriend or not being able to attract a keeper on time?

[Anonymous]

Obviously both genders have their own different challenges. What might be an advantage to one gender isn't to the other. But honestly what do you it's worse?

- A man (ages 25+) never getting a girlfriend and remains dateless; a virgin. Maybe he might have wanted a family but he's not having any luck at all. Yet, he won't pay for sex.

- A woman that can't get a keeper on time (she had a couple bfs but neither of them ever propose, all of them are just into shacking up, the romance and sex but not commitment) and either her fertile years are drained if she remains childless or she ends up pregnant with a boyfriend and at a higher risk of being a single mother. Then having a child with a man that wouldn't commit reduces her dating pool of suitable keepers even more.

A man not ever getting a girlfriend, remains a virgin

A woman unable to find a husband on time

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[DextroShade]

Every woman gets many chances to find a husband so if she becomes a spinster it's her own fault because she blew all those chances. This is usually because they have this narcissistic belief that the men they qualify for are beneath them and they deserve only the best men, so they reject the men who should have been their husbands and get passed around by dudes who would never take them seriously. I have no sympathy at all for people who squander so many opportunities.

A lot of men never even get a chance, especially if they are short, so I have a lot of sympathy for these men.

[Kaneki05]

I would see the other as positive as having kids is a bad thing.
Sure it's bad for them personally if they wanted kids but we don't need more kids in the world.

[Taniisokay]

• The woman's is worst indeed. Wasting your youthful years with fucking around probably just enjoying life without thinking about the future is the issue.

The 25 + old man must have high self control. I applaud him. Hopefully he finds a virgin just like himself.

I advice ladies to not sell themselves short to be someone's hole play with and have some high standards and be respectful to your body and try to best version of yourself for you not for future partners.

[Asker]

Very true indeed. Too many women are wasting time with bfs that just want an extended casual relationship because that's what the real term is. They believe into their lies because their so called ''bfs'' sugarcoat things by calling them their ''girlfriend'' and giving her false hope by lovelombing her about marriage and kids in the future. I'm willing to bet if those women knew from Day 1 that he doesn't have intentions of ever proposing and just wants to keep her as a ''forever live-in girlfriend (that's not a girlfriend anymore... that's a friends with benefits already)'' for as long as possible, most would ditch him.
A long time ago, it was either boyfriend and girlfriend for those serious about getting tying the knot (it wouldn't take more than 2-3 years or less) or casual relationships (without the misleading boyfriend and girlfriend title) for those just interested in dating for fun.

[Taniisokay]

Yeah I know 😭😭 but I pray that you find your soul mate sooner dear!

[Asker]

Thank and yes I started this past Nov with vetting process. I'm dating someone that knows my timeframe is 2 years at most, there will be no living together until at least engaged and that no way in hell would I be a 5 year-old girlfriend. I made it crystal clear from the start when the conversation was about what are we looking for and what are our goals.

[Taniisokay]

So impressive and I applaud you Indeed 👏👏. It's refreshing to see this dedication. All the best dear. I am sure all things will work out for you. You are smart one indeed.

[FatNeville]

I find that fate of the woman to be more tragic from my point of view.

[Asker]

Exactly. If she wastes too much time dating a man, either she can't have kids anymore or her quality drops significantly once she gets pregnant and the boyfriend never wanted to marry her. We have drastic consequences if we fail the vetting process and select wrong.

[DrPepper12]

No such thing as "on time". Keep knocking, shell answer soon enough!

[Danny_dan92]

It sucks. But it only because jealousy and showing off are two aspects of humanity

[Anonymous]

I am the guy. I don't know how the girl will feel. Never getting love is hard, chances are that I never will get anyone and even if I do that will hardly ever be real love. It's just women settling down.

[SolitarySolace]

Neither

[Anonymous]

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