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I work in a small office and we all get on really well. The guy in question is one of those “nice guys” who has a joke with everyone and is kind/lovely to everyone so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me.

Also, I’m too shy to ask him at present so I just want to know what you all think.

I’m a 30 year old woman and he is 27. We have a lot of banter, and although he jokes around with all women in the team, he does things with me that he doesn’t with them. For example, he will do silly things to get my attention such as grabbing my hair clip, poking me, touching my keyboard while I’m using it. He also makes silly jokes around me, such as “oh you’re still alive then” after I went home sick. He also “picks” on me in a jokey way and says he does it because I give him a reaction.

He looks at me a lot and we do have a lot of eye contact. I’ve been out drinking when he has, and apparently he’s very “huggy” with me but wouldn’t hug/touch me at work.

When it was my birthday, he arranged the cards and gifts for me at work. When I got a lift into work with another male, he seemed kind of jealous. I asked him to help me with something and he said “why don’t you go and ask (guy who gave me a lift to work)”.

The last time I “dated” someone I was 23, we were in a STR for about 3 months & it ended because to me it felt like settling. Since then, I’ve met up with men from dating apps on and off throughout the years. Maybe 1-3 were kind of sketchy, that was in my early twenties too but since then all the other ones were decent but I just didn’t feel them. And I think it was mutual, sometimes I’d hear back, sometimes I wouldn’t but it was known the feeling was reciprocated. I’m old let’s admit it, I’ve never been in love but intimacy scares me & I don’t really have much of a sex drive at all. Sometimes I have to ask myself if I like men because even though I know I do, I do not like any of these guys in the end. When we communicate on the app it seems fine but when I meet them in person I’m just so bleh towards them. They don’t catfish me, they just don’t live up to my expectations & I’ve learnt to not have any at this point in my life. I don’t like women sexually or romantically, I didn’t meet up with anyone in 2022 & today was the first time I met up with someone from
Hinge. Clearly was meh, should I just toss in the towel? Is it simply a case of just not meeting the ONE? Let me know if you have any follow up questions

Most of the women using older men for money are young…but I have seen some older women using older men for money as well. I see men complain about gold diggers all the time but it’s hard for me to register it when you guys are willing to get used by them just because they are young. You know those women always end up leaving as soon as they get enough $. And of course they aren’t faithful as the more they are using the better