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Context : My friend and I are arguing, I feel like she's settiting higher expectations aswell as not taking this seriously. Below are 2 texts.

Me:"Okay so I know Ur busy and I know that u can't respond all the time. I also understand that u don't want deep convos all the time and I get that. However I can't be understanding to the point that I ignore how I feel. I feel that we do only talk when u have a college question or issue. I feel that when I speak about "chill" things that u don't want to ask me more. I know that everyone should priorize themselves but at the end of the day if everyone did and I'll use an example :like a road with a give way sign, if no one let the cars into the road and put others first then we would all be in a traffic jam. l think my point is that sometimes Ur too wrapped up in Ur stuff to be aware enough that other things are going on too. I think we do have polar opposite views and that we are at different stages. But it goes beyond that, you need to improve from the inside out too. I think my points are valid and that if I do make mistakes I own up to them, this isn't one of them. I think u need to reflect "

Her:"Like it is valid I haven't been saying they haven't been but I just say my views and how it think it's been a long time since I haven't been able to be who I am and just changed and I really like this me not being a kiss ass or scared to sac speak to someone. Like I'm Not to the point of not acknowledgingp ppls feelings it cuz I don't want to deal with it and don't care and domt hv the time to care or just don't care in general nothing personal I just don't atm but it's still valid. I don't think I hv set expectations like I've just been having convo with u like doesn't mean u hv to look into it deeply. Like nothing for me rn is deep and don't want to think about it. Like I haven't feel like it has changed and idm cuz I don't feel like anything has chnage and we can still just talk about anything literally idm"

She is 25 and he is 29. He said he is just having a gut feeling they won't work out and being ADHD, he follows it. He also said he feels like she is more invested and loves him more than he loves her.

They have been together 4 years.

However they didn't finish the conversation just kind of walked away from it. When she asked the next morning if they were together or broken up, again met with silence and both just kind of walked away from it.

As she was leaving, he gave her a hug and kiss (he rarely does, not a real affectionate person) so she found that strange. SO she was like, "Are we good? Like we're going to try and work things out?" He said, "we're good, i'll call you later"

When he called they just talked like normal about work, their day, etc. So she is so confused on how to handle the situation without scaring him into rethinking breaking up but also she needs to know. WHY would he all of a sudden show a grand gesture of emotion and call her if he was so adamant about breaking it off?