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I live in a studio apartment. It’s a room next to the landlords home. I have to pass by her backyard to enter & exit my studio. Things were great when she lived alone now her daughter around my age moved in permanently with her as she broke up with her boyfriend. She has 4 kids & now building a tiny studio for her. When the landlord isn’t home she is bringing her boyfriend same as I do. Our bfs arrive at the same time I assume after work, so it’s uncomfortable for boyfriend visit me now as they are outside always & weird to pass by them. It’s only easy for boyfriend visit me super late when they are asleep. It’s kinda weird two girls bringing bfs home. I miss my privacy i used to have alone with my boyfriend. Also the room they are building for her the door is right next to my door now when I enter. Even tho her boyfriend visits daily now or living here, and my boyfriend visits weekly only or every other week, it’s giving me more stress her boyfriend arrives same time mine does too. They have similar color car too which is weird and he steals my and his parking spots so we now have to park super far. I plan move out in 5-7 months but plan tell owner in 3 months I’ll be moving out. I have no kitchen, also I plan have baby this year, so I need a bigger place & windows & kitchen & be alone with boyfriend. Not live with other girl. Not live anymore in owners backyard but have a private place to live. Maybe a Duplex or real apartment. Now I kinda understand why landlords want to rent studios only to single men that work all day & no girls. Lol.

Like I don't understand. Why not just tell me to leave him alone if he doesn't want to be with me?

I meet a guy a few years ago. We were neighbors. He started washing my car every week. I tried to pay him and he wouldn't take the money. I then found out he was living with his girlfriend at the time. Then they moved out. Then I hear from him a few months later telling me he has crush and wants to take me out and that him and the girl he was dating broke up. But then he kept making excuses when it came time to hang out. Then when questioned I found out that he decided to go back to the same girl he was living with. Now in 2023 we happened to run into each other and reconnect and he still saying he still wants to hang out and that he knows he made a mistake before and that he and the girl ended up broking up shortly after that. However it's been almost a month since we've been in communication and he is still making plans only to cancel or take a raincheck. He asked me to be his valentines and then said oh well I have to bring you the gift I got you early cause I'm working on Valentines day. But on valentines day morning told me he would be able to come see me. Then at the last minute says he cannot get off work and has to stay late and can we go on a date this coming weekend. He is consistently making plans and then canceling or asking for a raincheck. We have yet to actually go on a date. Am I just being paranoid in thinking maybe he is still involved with someone. Am I just wasting my time thinking this guy is going to ever step up? Or does he just want to hook up and potentially ghost me afterwards?