I live in a studio apartment. It’s a room next to the landlords home. I have to pass by her backyard to enter & exit my studio. Things were great when she lived alone now her daughter around my age moved in permanently with her as she broke up with her boyfriend. She has 4 kids & now building a tiny studio for her. When the landlord isn’t home she is bringing her boyfriend same as I do. Our bfs arrive at the same time I assume after work, so it’s uncomfortable for boyfriend visit me now as they are outside always & weird to pass by them. It’s only easy for boyfriend visit me super late when they are asleep. It’s kinda weird two girls bringing bfs home. I miss my privacy i used to have alone with my boyfriend. Also the room they are building for her the door is right next to my door now when I enter. Even tho her boyfriend visits daily now or living here, and my boyfriend visits weekly only or every other week, it’s giving me more stress her boyfriend arrives same time mine does too. They have similar color car too which is weird and he steals my and his parking spots so we now have to park super far. I plan move out in 5-7 months but plan tell owner in 3 months I’ll be moving out. I have no kitchen, also I plan have baby this year, so I need a bigger place & windows & kitchen & be alone with boyfriend. Not live with other girl. Not live anymore in owners backyard but have a private place to live. Maybe a Duplex or real apartment. Now I kinda understand why landlords want to rent studios only to single men that work all day & no girls. Lol.
Help, should I move out? YES OR NO?
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Having your own place is much better than sharing. Privacy is always good so yes whenever you feel you are good on money and all I would move asap!! You'll be much happier
You definitely should move out and if not for yourself, do so for your future kid. 2 bedroom should be your goal, because you be hearing crying baby for the next 2 years lol and as much as you would love that baby, believe me when I'm telling you, you and your second half would need a space where you can be and sleep on your own (changing shifts).
It’s just weird Two girls bringing bfs and I missed it when the landlord lived alone. I had privacy and it was quiet
Kinda weird she’s bringing boyfriend when her mom isn’t home at night like hiding. And I do the same thing Except I live alone and I don’t live with my mom.
The way I see it, you are more equipped to deal with life than she is. At least you are living basically by yourself and paying your own bills, she on the other hand completely relies on her mom even though she is what 30+?
It’s weird tho as we do the same thing hide boyfriend , bring boyfriend same time, park where I and he park, strange kinda creepy
Why is this a question? LOL No, stay in that situation AND have the child!! Duhhhh.