Should I break up with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend. He is 26 years old, We been dating for a year. He is really sweet, and I love him, but he is mentally lazy and refuse to discipline his life. He is very messy, and honestly has no clue what is going on in his life. meaning there's a lot of things he should know and he does not with finances and career wise. Also he is a major spender on all his wants and loves to buy me things and spends on his friends a lot knowing he needs to save for college and his health. He works full time but he is not making enough to date. I think he needs to focus on himself before entering a relationship. Love does NOT pay bills. It could be why his family does not like helping him, because they always brush him off. Should I pull back? Or just have a honest conversation?

[Anonymous]

You could have a conversation but I don't know how that would sound without offending him. Maybe you two have just grown apart. As we get older, the type of men we were compatible with at one point in time may not be what we are compatible with anymore, and that’s just part of life. Like let’s say you’d met him at 22 while bar hopping and you partied often around that time but now you’re lifestyle has changed and you aren’t into that scene anymore but he is, no less than the day you met him. It would just be time to move on right? Same here.

[hissugarbunns]

You're still young I'd move on he don't seem like he's ready to has have priorities on track seems like you guys are on different paths!

[BCRanger10]

Has this been discussed before? If so, and especially if it's been more than once and he has made no effort to better himself, then I think it would be a good idea to end the relationship. This is certainly true if you want marriage and family.

[spartan55]

So you've been dating this guy a year and think 'pulling back' without a discussion is a good idea? How is that even an option?

[Talkingwizard]

Definitely need to start with an honest conversation, it sounds like he needs a pus forward and if no one has given hin that, be that person? If things still dont change after an honest conversation, then think about what you want to do. But sometimes people need that push because they dont know better. Granted Im not sure whether or not he does. But might be worth talking first

[Talkingwizard]

Hope ut helps, message me if u want to chat more, open to it

[Mangospacho]

If you’re asking if you should break up with him then you probably are not meant to stay together. Go with your gut.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Stop trying to change men and PICK BETTER! Please women BE PICKY! BE VERY VERY PICKY! Don’t let the first handsome face knock you up

[hornyvirgin]

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stay and try motivation

[TrillXHippy]

Then break up with him

[Anonymous]

You're talking like his mother...