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Why do guys love bomb you, then when you reciprocate, they stop talking to you?

This guy literally pursued me, and was telling me things like "I canceled seeing my family to see you", "I could see us being serious", "I know you like me as much as I like you" and "I want to take you on dates" like...
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Should I block him or go through on meeting up with him?

So about 2 years ago, a guy on social media contacted me. He asked me out on a date but I declined and said I had a partner (of 8 years) . He said "that's okay, we can be friends ". I said cool. But during the course of...
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He doesn’t want to have kids but I do. Though I’m getting old and it’s getting more less likely for me to have kids. How do you accept childless life?

As I growing up, I thought I’d fall in love, get married, and having kids by now. Though the reality didn’t go as I planned. I’m 39, never been married and childless. I’ve been in a relationship for a year now. My...
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Is this a good approach to asking a girl out?

There is a girl at the bar that I’ve seen around, but never really talked to for the past year and a half. I never talked to her because everytime I saw her she gave me a mean scowl. Until recently I brought it up to...
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She took a week to respond. Should I act like i'm unbothered?

First thing is first. She is going through some stuff. I don't like giving girls excuses but this is fairly relevant. She isn't leaving her house atm due to feeling suicidal (which I didn't know) and she still travelled...
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Ladies serious question what thought process here, why do women do this?

So first off I know its not going work out, so don't just tell me she's not into me. I got that and am over it. But whats the deal why do this? Whats the thought process? You meet this women on line, you exchange numbers....
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Is it a bad sign if you feel nervous when someone you like says hello to to the point where you avoid the same spot?

This is about me & guy I asked out a few weeks ago —and after some mix up we’re on track to hang out Thursday evening or Friday morning 😂 … So he knows I hang out in a tree at the library where he works in between my...
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This is about me & guy I asked out a few weeks ago —and after some mix up we’re on track to hang out Thursday evening or Friday morning 😂 … So he knows I hang out in a tree at the Show More
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I’m 25 but men almost never approached me, flirt, or ask for my number?

First of all I know I look like I’m in college but I’m actually 25. Embarrassing to admit but I have never been in a relationship. I can count on one hand the number of dates I’ve been on! Even in college guys never...
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How much should a guy text you after a first date?

So I went on a date with a guy from an app. This guy would not stop texting me. He would do it in the morning, afternoon and dinner. It has been 3 days. The thing is I told him in the beginning that I want to get to know...
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Should I be friends with him again?

Ok so backstory- the water in the entire apartment complex I live in had a pipe burst and so we had NO water the day before my "best friend" came down to visit me at college. So to try to alleviate the issue, our...
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Ex boyfriend of 14 years ago contacted me?

My first boyfriend, I was young 14-16 years old. He was obviously my first everything contacted me out of the blue on Instagram. When I dumped him in 2009, he went on immediately to date this (look alike girl) who he is...
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Girls, Part 2. I’ve become a bit of an Incel, and would like to know your opinions. Am I the problem?

My first and since then my only girlfriend, now ex. Left me with trust issues that I still have to this day. I grew up in the military, overseas. We met in high school. She was the only girl who I could be myself around,...
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When I reflected about my ex boyfriend, I realised I should have left way earlier. I have realised that love really blinded me from his flaws.

In my past relationship, I had so many insecurities. I disliked his past and the risky behaviours he had taken when he was single. I projected my dislike to him and it caused a big strain on my mental health and...
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Am I wrong for feeling bad he made me walk home at 4am?

It has been a really hard week and my date today didn’t go well. When I called my friend he invited me over. I know it’s just booty call with a friends with benefits, but I was kind of hurt when he said he had to get up...
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How can I stop this cause I’m getting so hurt?

Hi I’m a 15 years old teenager, I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for nine months and I was completely in love with him, I’ve struggled mentally before we dated from traumas and mental health in general. Our...
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What would you do?

If you thought a girl was cute and liked her personality but she was so shy that she didn't say much on y'all first date even tho you liked her through text. would you keep taking her out so she could get used to you?
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If you thought a girl was cute and liked her personality but she was so shy that she didn't say much on y'all first date even tho you liked her through text. would you keep taking her out so she could get used to you?
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Why do men send mixed messages? Should I be patient or end it?

First couple months he’s telling me he misses me and that waking up alone is not as nice, talking about me living on a boat with him one day, asking me to meet his best friend, putting me on the phone with his sister....
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Why does my girlfriend keep asking if I still like her?

So i work a lot but i still make time for my girlfriend. This was the reason i didn't wanna date anyone with how busy i was. So if i can't spend the day with her i'd spend the night at hers or she spends it at mine and...
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Is this a commitment?

He bought a house in April and asked me to move in saying he didn’t want a commitment. In my eyes that right there is almost a commitment. Over the month’s we’ve become sexually intimate. Last night he eagerly said “this...
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