My first and since then my only girlfriend, now ex. Left me with trust issues that I still have to this day. I grew up in the military, overseas. We met in high school. She was the only girl who I could be myself around, and she liked it and thought it was cute and funny. I didn’t have to worry about her somehow taking being called cute as creepy and weird. When I first told her that, she liked it to my surprise. She actually kept the conversation going, and started the conversation. And for once it wasn’t only me putting in effort to get to know someone. We started dating for 3 months, after that her mom was moved to America. We agreed to long distance date. Six months later, come to find out she was cheating on me. If you’ve been cheated on you know that feeling, trust has been shattered, your heart drops, sudden rage and also depression at the same time. Anyway she begged for forgiveness, I wasn’t stupid so I said no, we’re done. Throughout the next several months she kept texting and calling me, trying to be nice and claiming it was an accident that she cheated. I settled with “fine, we’ll be friends. That’s it. Mind you this was December when I found out she cheated, and days before finding that out I bought her gifts. When she received them a week or two later she really started blowing up my phone begging for forgiveness. Over the next two years she became a completely different person, not good in any way. She’d by the way had never gotten me a gift for my birthday or Christmas when we dated, I bought her a gift out of the blue and a Christmas gift later. She started blaming me for all the bad things happening to her in her life and me being severely depressed cuz of story #1, I believed everything she said. Even though we were a thousand miles away from each other. She had even convinced me for a time, that she never cheated. And had changed the details of what happen. I finally dropped her, every picture, every text. Didn’t have gifts to get rid of tho.
Girls, Part 2. I’ve become a bit of an Incel, and would like to know your opinions. Am I the problem?
