Why does my girlfriend keep asking if I still like her?

[Anonymous]

So i work a lot but i still make time for my girlfriend. This was the reason i didn't wanna date anyone with how busy i was. So if i can't spend the day with her i'd spend the night at hers or she spends it at mine and that's the most time we spend together. Of course i still message her when i'm on a break since i have her schedule pretty much memorized. But whenever we're cuddling she just pops up the question, i don't know if she thinks because i'm only available to spend nights with her , she thinks that's it but i really like her honestly my first relationship in the past couple of years. I don't want her to think like that but no matter how i tell her i'm really into her there is this doubt she has i guess. I even asked if she thought i was playing her and she said she doesn't know, i don't want her to think like that. i absolutely adore i just need to let her know but i guess words aren't working. She has this look in her eye like she's bracing herself for when i say no when i might respond with a no which will never happen. I just hope she doesn't realize how much out of my league she is. So any ideas of how i can cement how much i like her into her head?

[Agent_Elflord]

Insecurity. I’ve got this issue too, most of the time I feel unattractive unless I put time and effort into my looks, and there’s this girl I’ve been talking to online for almost two months whom I sometimes wonder if she’s blind or what she sees in me, because she always calls my pics handsome even on days where I haven’t shaved or am a little more red than usual. Part of me is still searching for reasons to believe that she’s really a scammer or something, especially since she started love-bombing two days in. (though I’ve heard that love-bombing can actually be a genuine feeling of love for neurodivergent people, and she’s talked a little bit about some of her issues, so it could totally be genuine.)


When she gets busy and doesn’t write for a while, I start to worry that maybe I said or did something wrong and that she’s done with me, so I apologize and sometimes explain to her the thoughts that were going through my mind. If it’s a real connection, I don’t want this one I have with her to end.

[KloexoxJayne]

She's just looking for reassurance, she's obviously very insecure and scared of loosing you... maybe she's not feeling an emotional connection and is scared by that or just doesn't feel good enough to hold your interest.
Don't take unnecessary time off work and strain yourself financially just amp up the pampering when you are around... tell her how often how much she means to you without her first saying it.. reach out and touch her skin often, an arm rub, a tight cuddle whatever... ask follow up questions about her day so she knows you actually listened properly to whatever she said... hope that helps

[Asker]

yeah it did thank u

[KloexoxJayne]

It's okay, I can relate to her so I can kind of spot the signals lol

[Vanidal]

Have you ask her about it?

[Fireguy17]

she is insecure.