Search Results: trusting someone

Is it an over exaggeration to block him on everything?

So let’s start with the fact that I struggle to trust people a lot. Working on it but This is one of those times where I’m trying to not let it skew my view of men as a whole or anyone. But I guess this guy is one of my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My toxic/possibly narc ex’s new girlfriend of one month got a new tattoo of his car on her arm, and they got couple tattoos. Is this normal/healthy?

So my ex was very toxic to me and hurt me very deeply. We broke up four months ago and we dated a year. He moved on to another girl after two months. He broke up with me so cruelly and heartless…he accused me of something...

Shumu

Xper 1 Age: 27

Why does toxic guy come back saying I make him want to be toxic? wtf?

why would i make him want to be toxic and he said he wants me to be his sneaky link. He has a girlfriend. why would he say that. I told him i would never and that I'm talking to someone. i told the guy I'm talking to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do guys get uncomfortable/nervous when a girl cries?

I cried at work today and I wasn't planning on someone seeing me like this but my male coworker caught me. He was slightly shocked and became nervous, asking me what happened and if i like to have some water or coffee. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When someone breaks their promise, is it normal to lose trust in them?

I was raised knowing that your word is your bond and that when you say that you’re going to do something, you do it. Well, recently my best friend gave me his word that he would help me do something that was not only...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Should wasting someone's market value be punished by law?

The market value for us is fertility and youth. A man making her wait eternally for that proposal with fake "one day" promises, keeping her for his selfish needs is destroying her value and lowering her dating pool,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The market value for us is fertility and youth. A man making her wait eternally for that proposal with fake "one day" promises, keeping her for his selfish needs is destroying her

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How would you describe the pain when someone hurts/takes advantage of your child?

I'm a 36 year-old, childless woman. For parents, what's a way to describe that? I'm wondering because in my father's eyes, my first ex boyfriend remains his worst enemy ever. To him, that's the one single person that hurt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I have my expectations set too high?

My friend group is a group of three of us and out of the three of us only one has any experiences with relationships. I’m going to refer to her by her first initial, T. T has been in a pretty serious relationship now for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have nobody to ask advice so I’ll appreciate it if you guys can help?

I was talking to this guy and he started just acting weird I guess because my bestfriend is home from jail and they aren’t friends anymore but that have nothing to do with me. He ended up saying he couldn’t trust me...

Bracefacesummer

Xper 6 Age: 32

What can I do when the choices are give up on love or lower my standards?

I'm 27 female, I've been abused in nearly every relationship I've ever had. My last one ended in 2019 after I'd been raped by my ex and since then I've been single. I had a situationship or friends with benefits type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If a women has DSED?

If a women had DSED disorder, (basically meaning they don’t have that “stranger danger” sense because the brain doesn’t work correctly.) They are unable to differentiate certain situations or understand the “dangers” of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you fake chemistry?

We were never official. And yes he probably used me. I’m under no illusions of what it was (well maybe a little bit 🫣) But for on and off 2 years we were in each others lives. Mostly sex, it especially started that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Will you get back to someone you don't trust because you still love them?

My boyfriend who i loved a lot, broke up with me got back to me after a year and half; when he got back i asked him to prove to me that i can trust him again and to give me time to think, only to find out that he cheated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I’m drunk, someone give me dumb pickup lines to try out?

This will work, trust the process

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can u say u love someone but continue to do things that hurt ur spouse?

My boyfriend and I been together 10 months. He says he loves me a lot. He spends every single day with me on the phone and sleeps with me on the phone because I have nightmares He listens to my feelings and is always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s a smart way to handle this situation?

I loved a guy once who was a friend. He’s been pursuing me for a year and a half. Recently because I’m autistic and naive, I trusted someone I shouldn’t have not to repeat the fact that I dated other men to move on from...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can you ever truly trust someone else?

My first love told me out of his own mouth that I shouldn’t trust him after I guess I showed that I trusted him too much. Like a fool I did. But that was just one of many times where I have trusted people and eventually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My first love told me out of his own mouth that I shouldn’t trust him after I guess I showed that I trusted him too much. Like a fool I did. But that was just one of many times where I

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Is getting someone's forgiveness actually a gift they're giving you?

Let's say you really screwed over someone (it can be anyone; co-worker, friend, partner, etc) and destroyed their trust. You obviously do apologized afterwards and tried asking for another chance without any hopes at all....

Anonymous

(25-29)