Search Results: wait to ask

Why is the “block” only an option on some anonymous questions and not all?

For example, one weird blue anon asked something and the option to block his question popped up. But when one pink anon asked a question, there was no option to block. Does it have something to do with him posting under...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Dating

How long should I wait for a reply on OkCupid?

I started messaging this girl yesterday and I said “maybe you and I can get together to do something?” To which she replied “yeah that would be fun”. So I asked her what she likes to do for fun (after I asked her about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is it ok for a male friend to behave this way?

I have a friend who has a girlfriend, he suddenly started texting me every minute everyday, telling me about every small detail going through his day and he asks me what I'm doing. He waits for me to sleep first even if...

Aislinling

Xper 1 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why would a random girl do this?

While working in my truck late at night I pulled over to catch up with work on my laptop. As I was parked, an obviously drunk girl knocked on my window and asked if I would wait with her until her Uber arrived. I asked...

KrakenAttackin

Master Age: 46

Dating

Should I feel dumb for being ignored by people who I put more value then what they gave me?

We live 5 hrs away and never met in person. He tried for months to be in a relationship with me but I put him on the friend zoned multiple times because my gut feeling and his arrogance told me I was not going to try...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

The love of my life is completely broke, but trying to find work. Should I stay with him?

He’s from the USA and comes from a really poor family in a poor rural town. I come from a well off family. I thought and my family, who worked hard for their money, that my fiancé was being lazy and not wanting to work....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is this a sign that he and I were never meant to take things further?

A guy that I liked and I met at work ended up quitting the job we met at. We liked each other so we started messaging on Facebook. He even started to plan dates. Buy tickets for us to go out etc We found out how mutual...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Was he annoyed with me? Why the shut down behavior?

My male coworker and I are pretty good work friends but lately I’ve been getting told by others that they sense chemistry between us and think that there is something going on… I’m sure they have mentioned it to him too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why does he always need me to do him stuff?

Like this morning we was walking on break and he happened to walk beside me and asked if I can pay for him bc he had 20 dollars and he can’t spend it on vending machine so he will give me 20 back and he spended 10 I told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago but is adamant about dropping my stuff at my house?

So my ex broke up with me nearly 3 weeks ago. It was a bit out of the blue. We both have issues with mental health, and sometimes after a drink jealousy can get the better of both of us. We’re never nasty, but I can...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why did he ghost me?

So I (19F) was seeing this 20yr old guy as a friend and he showed interest in me. I immediately told him I was not ready to be in a relationship rn because I just got out of a relationship, but he didn't mind and so we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why didn't he tell me he had a girlfriend?

a guy I've been talking to for a while expressed strong interest, how he wants to be mine and me to be his. He wants to be very close to me as possible. He flirted to the max basically. We became quite close friends...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

So what’s up with this guy coworker like why does he want me to do things for him and is married?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did he ghost me?

I have been talking to a guy for a month. On and off texting. He has shown signs of being interested in me, but yesterday he messaged me good morning and asked how I was. I replied as normal. He left me on read. I waited...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Dating Tips For Guys

I can feel the eye rolls from here, a woman...giving us...tips...blah blah, but with any advice, take it or leave it, but listening to your complaints about dating, thought I'd give my perspective... 1. Stop going to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Guy's Behavior

Why does a guy I’m newly talking to keep making references about a trip I’m thinking about planning?

This guy I’ve been seeing for the past 7 weeks knows I’m planning to go to visit my cousin in Arizona in the next month or two. He has asked when I plan to see her randomly 3 or more times now. I just told him I wasn’t...

barbie2525

Explorer Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

I want to break up with my boyfriend in the most polite and respectful way. I asked him if we can meet to talk and I think that he thinks that this is a date… At first, I was thinking about treating him to a nice dinner,...

Reneei

Xper 1 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

What do you think this is?

There is a boy in my class who is my first guy friend. Yesterday, when we were at the cafeteria, one of his friends told me that the boy was caring for me and thinking about me. We were about to watch a movie at my place...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

What does he want?

I've been talking with this old friend from highschool. We met up once after around 8-9 years. He called me later, said he wanted to see me again sometime. Then we talked via Whatsapp a couple of times (I texted and then...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I stop trying with him?

Im dating a m21 for around 2 months. Long distance, now when we are are going to meet in a week he’s suddenly extremely dry (srsly one reply all day) before when i asked him why , got told because he is afraid of getting...

Anonymous

(18-24)