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Obviously most of us should want our close friends to have a great personality, but what about looks?

Maybe you care about status, maybe you'll be jealous, maybe you'll feel tempted, maybe you really don't have any preference, but think about it a little. This is your good friend.

Personally, if I really think about it, one doesn't outweigh the other, but I'm wondering if you guys and girls have a stronger opinion than I do.

Just something i heard on YouTube said. So as the questions state:

1. Do you believe in souls?

2. If you believe in souls do you believe they determine what sex you will be in real life?

by Soul we mean: the spiritual essence of a person, which includes our identity, personality, and memories that is believed to be able to survive our physical death. so identity can include ones sex in life. The soul is usually defined as immortal and exists even before your birth and after you die. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soul

so then when you are born in life does the soul determine your sex for life?

Are you the type to like to people please?

Here are some signs that you might be a people pleaser if you aren't sure:

Agreeing with whoever is in front of you. Many of us learn how to politely listen to others as part of our social skills. That can veer into people-pleasing behavior if you constantly agree with people because you want to earn their admiration and not because you believe what you’re saying.

Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. People pleasers often make themselves responsible for the emotional responses of others. If someone feels bad, you may blame yourself or fear that person thinks you’re the problem. It’s good to say you’re sorry if you’ve hurt someone, but there may be a deeper issue if you’re frequently apologizing for things you have no control over.

Not being able to say no. If you find it difficult to tell others no when they ask you for something, you may be a people pleaser. Many people pleasers prefer making up excuses later to get out of a commitment instead of saying no from the start. If you do follow through, you can regret not having the strength to stand up for yourself.

Changing your personality depending on who’s around you. People pleasers tend to shift their behavior and attitude to match that of the person or group. That can lead to you acting in ways that are out of character or participating in actions you disagree with just to fit in socially. People pleasers tend to do anything possible to avoid conflict, even if it means turning into an entirely different person.

Your worth depends on how others see you. People pleasers need validation from others to feel good about themselves. They can go to extremes to earn words of praise from others. The confidence of a people pleaser rises and falls based on how others perceive them.

Does any of this resonate with you? feels like things you do?

If you believe being short is a weakness in your personality, if you believe only tall guys get hot women, then all you’re going to see is tall guys with hot women. You’re going to miss all the short guys walking around who are getting laid, having fun, and meeting women. When you live in a fear based world, you’re consistently validating your fears. You’re looking for it. You’re consumed with your fears. Agree or Disagree below. (credit: David Wygant)