Would you change your personality to be with your dream girl?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m curious about this. I heard a lot about how people, men especially, will change everything about their personality just to have the privilege of dating someone that believes they’re a totally different person than they are. If the person of your dreams, the woman/man who is everything you’ve ever wanted and then some, wanted to date you bc they believed you were a totally different person from who you actually were, would you become that person or would you try to convince them that the real you is who they want?

[blackgaletiger]

The phrase fake it until you make it comes to mind. Its a hunter mentality. If you see someone you like you are going to approach them in the best way possible. Is it wrong to do so? No because we all do it. We cater to our partners differently the how we act with our friends then act completely different in a professional setting or with family. You can see it as changing or you can see it as adapting your personality

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's rather difficult to maintain the facade and I'd rather not have to be forced to convince them, either they want me as I am now or we'll never be together. The reality is, if they were really my dream girl, they'd be interested in me, too.

[DizzyDesii]

A lot of guys did this with me in the past but their true colors often showed by month 3. People can only fake it for so long. I want someone whose already like what i hope for. Not someone who has to pretend

[Quackthulu2]

If a person required me to completely change who I am they aren’t my dream anything.

[TalynMere]

Nope.

You do *have* to change yourself in general for life via growth and all that, people just don't like people who don't self-improve.

However, being a doormat for someone you like and changing everything about yourself just to be near them is weird and unsexy.

My dream partner would not want me to change. (Or they'd want me to but then get off on me being just too awesome to change, but that's a whole other story).

[Jennz6]

If I am your dream girl, then you better change your ways

[LogicBomber]

Men get with women hoping they never change, and they always do.
Women get with men hoping they will change, and they never do.

[Reorx]

No, there's one reason I'll change myself & thats to become a better petson than I was before.

[PointTaken]

Hell no! I am me. If she doesn't like who I am then she's not my dream girl.

[Arik_jade]

Upto some extent, i can do... but those are inherent traits, that couldn't be changed.

[Anonymous]

I don't even sacrifice my sleep for girls forget changing personality...

I'm me stay or leave idc.

[Agape93]

Nope, because I wouldn't be me then

[Jamie05rhs]

Hell no. Absolutely not.