Has your personality changed and how?

[jennifer_bloom]

This is me at age 10, I was gentle, anorexic, feminine, soft, deeply sensitive, and very vulnerable and shy.

This is me at 37, I’m confident, bold, brave, outspoken, kind, generous, honest, and hard working.

As a child I was 100% feminine and as an adult I’m both aggressive and gentle because I’ve learned that if you don’t bite and attack abusers and bullies, you get eaten alive by them. My own family members are some of my biggest enemies in life. I’m not soft anymore; because too many abusers try to destroy those who are soft and gentle.

[Sixgunsound]

Through high school and my first attempt at college, I was quiet and reserved and put up with peoples BS. Since coming out of the military however that is no longer the case.

[Zolly99999]

Absolutely 😁. I use to be shy and quiet near new people. Now I'm out going and fun 🤪

[HelloSofi97]

In the past, I would go out of my way to keep the peace with family members/other people who clearly didn't like me. I got tired of going through the same thing over and over again... didn't have anyone else to blame but myself for tolerating that. As I got older, I started cutting people out of my life as soon as I start feeling some type of way about them and how I'm being treated. I don't feel any sort of guilt for cutting anyone out of my life (family included) if it means that I can live my life in peace.

[Pinay_ako]

Yass baby! You have transformed into the best version of yourself. When I was 15, I was overweight, depressed and a spoiled brat.

25 years later, I am at my healthiest weight ever but still a spoiled brat 🤣. But I have become independent and can cook my own meals now 😁 no raw chicken or undercooked potatoes 🥔 anymore yay me

[nawtee_me]

You weren’t or aren’t spoiled are you?

[Pinay_ako]

@nawtee_me 🤣 I am an only child… is that bad?

[nawtee_me]

Not at all, I have two brothers and at times growing up I wished I was an only child…. lol

[Pinay_ako]

@nawtee_me 🤣 good thing I had hundreds of cousins. So I wasn’t really alone. But Yea

[nawtee_me]

So does that mean I can spoil you too?

[Pinay_ako]

@nawtee_me are you asking if you can be my sugar daddy? 😉 in public? 😜

[nawtee_me]

@Pinay_ako not looking for a sugar baby, but don't mind spoiling the right person...

[Pinay_ako]

@nawtee_me was kidding 😒 😂. Don’t worry. I know what you mean 💕

[melanieeeB]

Absolutely! I used to be a quiet scared little girl, turned into a reserved and little insecure teen and now I'm still reserved to some kind, but damn confident, super in love with myself etc and also louder if needed and yeah... I always say, the older I get the more the aries (rising) in me comes out haha

[PeteBy]

Used to be shy, reserved and a loner. Totally the opposite now. Very confident in myself. Tend to speak my mind when other people might bite their tongue.

[Jennz6]

No, not really. I am submissive, but now I am looking for a guy that is submissive so I can feel like I am in control.

[Sixgunsound]

If you are both submissive how does that work? Have you secretly stopped being submissive because you want to be in control now? How did that change come about?

[Jennz6]

@Sixgunsound yes, I won’t tell him

[Sixgunsound]

You would be surprised how many corporate power type men are submissive.

[Jennz6]

@Sixgunsound what about you?

[Sixgunsound]

You don’t survive socially in the US military if you aren’t dominant.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I was depressed from 9 to 15. Now I'm out going more.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I only evolve and improve, just like how the Allspark can’t be destroyed and only transforms

[Aiko_E_Lara]

From being one of the loudest to being one of the most quiet

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You are the one with braces right?

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m the one on the left

[Aakash_Hangargi]

So i am right right?

[jennifer_bloom]

Im the one on the left with no braces

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Ok 👍

[Anonymous]

I am more open minded.

Less racist

more respectful of human rights (for all, and that includes the criminals. Otherwise I would be a hypocrite).

[Anonymous]

yes with age as you get older and mature